Thank-you! I know what you mean. I have a friend who late last year, was 30kgs lighter than me... now she is only 1kg lighter, I dont know what it is, maybe she is busy (she does have a new job and 2 kids), but the lighter i become, the less contact I seem to be having with her. which is a real shame, as she has been a big girl herself, she worked and deprived herself for months and months, and she got there, and I know she doesnt want to be the "fat one" of the 'group' as I am going to go well below her weight, but I dont see it like that. I think she looks FAB, and I just hope she gets over herself. she might not though, unfortunately, she is all about her if you know what I mean. love her though.
Oh well. You cant control what others say and do, but you can control your reactions to it.

you are looking great by the way!
Lisa:
Thank-you! you look incredible. what a great job you are doing.