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02-19-2008, 06:48 PM
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ok so i did something stupid. on an impulse i asked "the guy" if he wanted to meet tomorrow or thursday as opposed to meeting on saturday and OF COURSE he said he'd rather meet sooner than later  so we are meeting on thursday  thats the day after tomorrow!!!!
Here's my dilemma;
I AM A SOCIAL MORON. what do i say? what do i do? more importantly WHAT DO I WEAR???? 
...i think i am going to have a stroke. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
__________________  KenyaR.  Lap RNY 4/19/07 | 
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02-19-2008, 07:07 PM
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Kenya,
Just Relax!!!!!!!!!
Be Yourself, Be Confident..
He Obviously Is Very Interested In You As You Are,
So Don't Try To Be Any Different.
Sorry I Can't Be Of Any More Help,
I Think You Are Worrying..
You Are Truly A Wonderful Person.
Dress To Kill, You'll Be Fine, I Know It!!!
Lol,
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02-19-2008, 07:18 PM
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Just be yourself, Don't show weakness they can smell it like dogs..lolol.. Dress to impress and you will do fine. He has to see something there or he wouldn't be interested..And LET US KNOW what happened ok..lol 
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02-19-2008, 07:19 PM
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He will LOVE you! Just be yourself, and wear something CUTE!!! You got this! What are the plans?!?
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02-19-2008, 07:26 PM
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um PLANS??? 
the thing is...i dont know. im taking the train into the city and meeting him at grand central. i would assume we are going to go someplace where we can talk; nothing extravagant. i would be fine with coffee and conversation. nothing is in stone just yet. im in panic mode. SOMEBODY SLAP ME! PLEASE!!!
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02-19-2008, 07:30 PM
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Girl just relax and be yourself, as for what to wear depends on if you are meeting casually or formally. If it is just casual wear somthing casual and not to dressy, otherwise if it is more formal wear one of these sweater dresses that you bought. No matter what you wear you will look like a knock out. Just take this as they go, you will be fine. Good luck and go get him.
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02-19-2008, 07:45 PM
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HERE IT IS!! SLAP, SLAP, SLAP!!! YOU ASKED FOR IT!!! RELAX! YOU'LL DO GREAT & LET US KNOW HOW IT GOES!!!  LOL, | |
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02-19-2008, 07:55 PM
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Unless someone can see a reason not to, please wear Red. It's confidant, It's February and YOU LOOK GOOD IN RED. You are thin and beautiful, don't hide behind black. Just keep it simple, no hugh hoops, something dainty in your ears, red sweater dress and boots, or red sweater, one of those many new jeans you have and boots.
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02-19-2008, 08:02 PM
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I think you are going to do fine. I think this is your time, Kenya. BUT, if you must do something, as much as you are on the internet, see if you can find something about what not to do or talk about on a first date? I know I watched a program one time and they analyzed what someone said/did on a first date, and there was a list? You just need to know that you have worked hard and you need to let someone know you like we do. You are a great woman, with a great sense of humor, a phenomenol woman.
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02-19-2008, 08:36 PM
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I have to agree, BE YOURSELF, there is nothing wrong with who you are, or I wouldnt like you so much! LOL Make it coffee and conversation, then you can go casual and get some use of those jeans you have been collecting!! Also you can keep it safe and public, since you really dont know for sure yet. How funny, I have a grin from ear to ear!!! You would think it was my date OMG!!
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