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02-26-2008, 09:20 PM
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OMG I swear I am not going to make it till Will gets home. These kids are driving me crazy, I honestly see why so many people transfer their addiction from food to alocohol...to make it through the days where their kids do nothing but talk back and argue with everything you say. OMG...no I am not drinking anymore but damn if I dont want a drink.
I have 3 kids, you would think I would have 1 that would not push my buttons but no they all feel the need to drive me nuts. The oldest (A GIRL) who is 11 and a half is constantly talking back to me, yelling at me and just in general being a pain in my ass, my oldest boy who is 10 is autistic and is really challenging me right now, and of course my 5 and a half year old makes it all better (NOT) by screaming at anything they say to him...calgon take me away
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02-26-2008, 09:38 PM
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hang in there. i only have one and she usually makes me want to jump from the nearest rooftop. so i could imagine what you're going thru. you are in my thoughts and prayers.
PS. anywhere you can send them for a day or so? you need a break.
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02-26-2008, 09:45 PM
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My sister will be here friday and she is taking them for a day when she gets settled in..THANK GOD.....Kenya I so want to jump off a cliff right now, between the whining, arguing and yelling.....My poor Mom keeps saying I dont know how you do it
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02-26-2008, 09:47 PM
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you will get thru it. just hold on til friday. then you will have some YOU time.
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02-26-2008, 09:57 PM
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I tend to leave the room. I am still smoking..(yeah, I know, i know), so just put myself in 'time out' It wont work on my son yet, so I give it to myself.
My son is 2 and some days, drives me absolutely mental. Im almost 31, and my 2yr old pretty much rules the roost! Its not supposed to be that way! I am the adult, yet have no idea on how to get him to Listen to me! argh!!
So, I feel your pain. Try to find a spot for yourself... I do not suggest the stair or step, or a corner! lol
Hang in there, just think, 18 isnt too far away! lol (just kidding)
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02-26-2008, 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by kiwi-leelee77  I tend to leave the room. I am still smoking..(yeah, I know, i know), so just put myself in 'time out' It wont work on my son yet, so I give it to myself.
My son is 2 and some days, drives me absolutely mental. Im almost 31, and my 2yr old pretty much rules the roost! Its not supposed to be that way! I am the adult, yet have no idea on how to get him to Listen to me! argh!!
So, I feel your pain. Try to find a spot for yourself... I do not suggest the stair or step, or a corner! lol
Hang in there, just think, 18 isnt too far away! lol (just kidding) |
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02-26-2008, 10:15 PM
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hey girl,
hang in there, fridays not too far away!!!!!!!!
i can kinda relate.. i have 4 kids & some days/months i feel like a single parent with my spouse!!
although, i'll tell ya, when i only had 2, & he lived & worked in FLA while we were here in NY, it was very difficult.
by NO MEANS as hard as having him overseas, i'm sure...
i take my hat off to ya..
can you have a college student bbsit every so often so you can get some down time???
or how about when they are in school???
you are a very strong woman & have been through alot, so don't give up on yourself now!!!!!!!!
tyr some yoga & get them involved too, believe me they are stressed out not having daddy around too & can benefit tremendously from it!!!!!!!!!
good luck my dear.
i sure hope something works for you.
your in my thought & prayers!!
LOL,
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02-26-2008, 11:00 PM
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leelee,
I am still smoking too...look I can give up the food, and the alcohol but the coffee and smokes are my sanity at this point. Thank you all for your support, I normally do well but today started off wrong and has just continued on...thankfully it wont be much longer til bedtime
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02-27-2008, 02:19 AM
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Originally Posted by beckamarie leelee,
I am still smoking too...look I can give up the food, and the alcohol but the coffee and smokes are my sanity at this point. Thank you all for your support, I normally do well but today started off wrong and has just continued on...thankfully it wont be much longer til bedtime | Absolutely fair enough!! (have you had any pouch probs with the smoking?)
Its my time out and I really dont want to give that up as I really have nothing else yet.
Sleep well, and tomorrow is another day, I hope it is 1000% better than today was!
*HUGS*
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02-27-2008, 02:48 AM
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Hi BeckaMarie, hope you have a better day today, I remember those days myself, I also have three children. Course, now they are 36, 33, and 32!! I'm sure you're doing a great job with your kids--this is a hard time for you and them with their dad in Iraq. Hang in there sweetie.
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