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03-10-2008, 04:18 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,693
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |  not sweet and caring?? ok, so i am talking to a friend of mine on the phone last night and he goes on to tell me that losing all this weight has changed me and says that i am not really sweet and caring like i use to be...im like WTH?? the only change i see in myself is that now i actually take time for me now instead of doing only for everyone els, before i would never do anything for me and now i feel better about myself and want to take care of myself. am i supose to feel guilty about this? or is there changes in me i dont see? i just dont get it? does he just like me less because i am not the fat friend?? it really hurts my feelings because i have always been very caring for everyone and still feel the same way in my heart...who knows!!
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03-10-2008, 04:29 PM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North West, NJ
Posts: 1,086
Weight Statistics 1/14/2008 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 330 lb Start Weight:
255 lb Current Weight:
180 lb Goal Weight:
75 lb Weight Loss:
75 lb Lb Left to Lose:
22.7272727273 % % Lost:
Summer 09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 47.3448979592 BMI Start:
36.5846938776 BMI Current:
25.8244897959 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Wow....pretty $#i!!y of him to say that! I'm sure you are not different, you are, like you said, just making yourself come second or third...as opposed to fifteenth or sixteenth! It's amazing how people who are supposed to be friends can't accept you when you are doing well. As much as they care about you, they want you to stay just the way you are, and react badly when you change for the better. Let it go....you are doing fabulous!
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03-10-2008, 04:29 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 2,117
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
9/28/07 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 279 lb Start Weight:
194 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
85 lb Weight Loss:
29 lb Lb Left to Lose:
30.4659498208 % % Lost:
18 months Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 45.0268595041 BMI Start:
31.3089990817 BMI Current:
26.6287878788 BMI Goal:
| I think you are right. The difference in us now is that we are taking more time for ourselves. And there is NOTHING wrong with that. Don't feel guilty about it.
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03-10-2008, 06:17 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: WADING RIVER (Long Island), NY
Posts: 4,860
Weight Statistics 7/16/07 Start Date:
7/16/07 Surgery Date:
4' 11" Height: 230 lb Start Weight:
139 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
91 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.5652173913 % % Lost:
12/31/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.4492961793 BMI Start:
28.0715311692 BMI Current:
23.2246480896 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | He Was Probably More Used To The Insecure You Rather Than The New You. Be Proud Of Yourself Girl
__________________ 3/2008 PREG. START WT 144LBS. GOAL WILL HAVE TO WAIT TILL AFTER BABY  230 lbs 7/2007 & 142 lbs 4/2008     |
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03-10-2008, 07:08 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hudson Falls, NY
Posts: 1,981
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Start Date:
1-29-08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 286 lb Start Weight:
182 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
104 lb Weight Loss:
32 lb Lb Left to Lose:
36.3636363636 % % Lost:
eventually Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.6570924666 BMI Start:
32.2363315697 BMI Current:
26.5684051398 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I think you're doing fabulous and if you're finally putting yourself up towards the top of your list, then that's great! You're not less caring - you just care more about yourself now!
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03-10-2008, 08:36 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: No. Los Angeles County, CA
Posts: 641
Weight Statistics 4.29.08 RNY Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 301 lb Start Weight:
255 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
46 lb Weight Loss:
85 lb Lb Left to Lose:
15.2823920266 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 45.7618944637 BMI Start:
38.7683823529 BMI Current:
25.8455882353 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | See, I am a b**** now. I am not known for being caring and sweet ...so nobody will be able to say I have "changed" after i lose the weight. . 
__________________ Judijo   Starting weight: beginning of nutrition classes, August, 2007 Your next pet is in the shelter...not at the pet store! |
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03-10-2008, 08:45 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,693
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | lol judijo!! well if you ask my hubby i was always one of those too!! thanks for all of the encouragement everyone, i am really to the point where if they cant except me then so be it, i am truely happy for once in my life and that is that!!
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03-11-2008, 01:26 AM
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| Super Moderator  | If you were to them, someone who "made them feel better" and feel that you don't do that now for them, that's their problem, not yours. ((((((HUGS))))) You're doing fine.
__________________ "In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun."   Just a li'l bit 'bout myself  |
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03-11-2008, 01:33 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Oklahoma City, Okla USA
Posts: 773
Blog Entries: 46 Weight Statistics 05/17/02 Start Date:
05/17/02 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 355 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
163 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.9154929577 % % Lost:
may 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0686390533 BMI Start:
31.9469822485 BMI Current:
29.1183431953 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Fact is..we do change and it's for the BETTER! We start thinking about ourselves more, not putting everyone ELSE ahead of us..also it seem like we tend to wake up and see that people put us down all the time and used us to make themselves feel better, etc... you are doing GREAT GREAT GREAT!!! Don't let anyone bring ya down!
__________________ --BREE open RNY 5/17/2002 -166 lbs(-200 at lowest) Everything & Anything is possible with Belief in place....WLS changes LIVES  |
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03-11-2008, 06:16 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 3,260
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 280 lb Start Weight:
148 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
132 lb Weight Loss:
-2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.1428571429 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5692041522 BMI Start:
22.5008650519 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I think the confidence we have improves...and that makes others insecure....some people have overweight friends around to make themselves feel/look better...when you lost the weight, you stopped being that for him. He may be trying a new way to push you down to make him feel better about himself.... You keep doing what you're doing and be proud of what you've accomplished!! |
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