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| Newbie | I had been losing weight, then it seems nothing is happening though others say it is. I hadnt lost anything for awhile, then the doc changed my diet and exercise regime and I started losing again but it feels like it has slowed to a crawl and im still fat. I hate this. Im 21 and I feel so damn alone, most of you have support, spouses, kids, but me-god i feel so alone and depressed man. Maybe wls was a waste |
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| WLS Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Zealand
Posts: 451
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 10/27/07 Start Date:
11 March 08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 239 lb Start Weight:
161 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
78 lb Weight Loss:
21 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.6359832636 % % Lost:
12/25/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.3323255228 BMI Start:
28.5167548501 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Hey there. You are not alone in being alone. I am a single mum and all my family and friends live at least 4hrs away. Its not easy, but being a part of this forum has been a huge help to me, sure, not in a physically here sense, but here all the same. As others have advised me, stalls happen, you just have to trudge on and work through it. Ask any question on here and also search through the forums. Its not an easy life, but it IS worth it. *HUGS* |
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| Super Moderator | Welcome to the board, thank you for joining us. When was your surgery, and how much have you lost? You don't have your stats up, so I'm sorry but we can't tell you much. However, when the scale is stuck is when your clothes size goes down. You see, your body will let go of the extra fat, then build up a healthy body, then lose some more fat, then firm up again...it's a continuous process, so, as far as the scales go, you will lose weight in humps and bumps, not in one smooth fell swoop. You will lose relatively rapidly at first, but it will soon slow down to what is a healthy rate for your body, not go down at the rate you would like to see. The expected losing curve is half of your excess weight in the first 6 months, one quarter in the next six months, and the last quarter from months 12-18-24. If your losing curve is somewhere along that line, you are doing fine. Much of this is a mind game. The last person who sees the weight loss is you. The others are being honest in saying that you are losing well, and doing fine. If you feel depressed, it may be that you are depressed in the medical sense as well, and could use some professional help there. This often happens, you aren't the only one. So, give yourself plenty of chances, believe in yourself that you can do it, because everyone on here believes in you, and are sure that you can do this. ((((((((HUGS)))))))) May your journey go well.
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| WLS Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Zealand
Posts: 451
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 10/27/07 Start Date:
11 March 08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 239 lb Start Weight:
161 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
78 lb Weight Loss:
21 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.6359832636 % % Lost:
12/25/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.3323255228 BMI Start:
28.5167548501 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Doc is wonderful! Honestly, on here you get the truth. Which is fantastic. I also think you should get your stats up and then the awesome people on here can help you more. *HUGS* |
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| Big Loser Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: San Diego
Posts: 143
Weight Statistics July 2007 Start Date:
12/03/07 Surgery Date:
5' 1" Height: 240 lb Start Weight:
160 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
80 lb Weight Loss:
30 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.3333333333 % % Lost:
12/03/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 45.3426498253 BMI Start:
30.2284332169 BMI Current:
24.5606019887 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | i'm sorry to see that you are feeling so down. i am glad to hear you are working with your doctor to increase your loss. this journey can be hard at times. hang in there and i hope you start feeling better soon! |
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 3,137
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 280 lb Start Weight:
148 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
132 lb Weight Loss:
-2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.1428571429 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5692041522 BMI Start:
22.5008650519 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Post your stats....let us know what you eat usually...and we'll do everything we can to help! It could just be a stall...which is SO frustrating, yet typical! |
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,402
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | welcome!! you are never alone!! even though i have kids and such, i find my most support and inspiration right here, because noone quite understands what you are going thru than ppl who have been there. stalls and slowing down do happen and they do truly suck, noone likes it and it does get depressing, maybe u could post in the what are you eating and someone would have suggestions...also are u exercizing? this is key also, good luck and come here lots!!
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Troy,ny
Posts: 909
Weight Statistics Since birth:) Start Date:
postponed until ? Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 319 lb Start Weight:
308 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
11 lb Weight Loss:
158 lb Lb Left to Lose:
3.44827586207 % % Lost:
sometime in 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.4823232323 BMI Start:
49.7070707071 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method - | Hi there! Even though I am married with kids my husband does not support me in anyway. The ladies here on this bored are awesome. They are my support and I have gained quite a bit of knowledge about this journey even though I have not had surgery yet. Come on RR and post often you'll feel a sense of "family". I hope you feel better. Remember all things in life are worth the struggle especially when it comes to your health. (((HUGS)))
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Cottondale Alabama
Posts: 567
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 228 lb Start Weight:
148 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
80 lb Weight Loss:
8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
35.0877192982 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 40.3839758125 BMI Start:
26.214159738 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | You will find plenty of advice and support with these wonderful people. You picked a great place to start, so welcome aboard and and keep us posted with your progress. |
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| WLS Mentor Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: N.Y.
Posts: 1,014
Weight Statistics June 25,2007 Start Date:
June 25,2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 322 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
152 lb Goal Weight:
130 lb Weight Loss:
40 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.3726708075 % % Lost:
07/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.4268211183 BMI Start:
30.0681666295 BMI Current:
23.8039652484 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Welcome,and stick around. This site was the BEST thing I ever stumbled upon and am greatful to everyone on here. Stay with us,you can litterally VENT about anything,really. (HUGS) Kathy
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