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Old 04-06-2008, 04:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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9-25-07
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9-25-07
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5' 6"
Height:
344 lb
Start Weight:
225 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
119 lb
Weight Loss:
65 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
34.5930232558 %
% Lost:
1-09
Goal Date:

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55.5169880624
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36.3119834711
BMI Current:
25.8218549128
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Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I am so nervous about looking for or finding a man now. With all this sagging skin and boobs that mop the floor who will want that? I joined a dating site which may have been a bad thing because I can't even get a nibble. The self esteem is getting really low. I can't imagine how I'm gonna be after another 100lbs. I wouldn't trade the loss I'll take the bad with the good,I just don't want to be alone forever!Any words of advice or maybe some prayers,would be great.
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:29 PM   #2 (permalink)
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September 19th 2007
Start Date:
September 19th 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 10"
Height:
363 lb
Start Weight:
211 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
152 lb
Weight Loss:
46 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
41.8732782369 %
% Lost:
12/31/09
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Body Mass Index
52.0793877551
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30.2720408163
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23.6724489796
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Be yourself. Honey I met my hubby on line several years ago acutally. I wasnt looking for him nor him me. We become friends nothing more. Be honest about eveything and the one fella you were ment to be with will appear. I met him in a chat room not a dating site, however I have friends whom I worked with meet their hubbys on a dating site. Dont try to hard. Most of the time you will find the one to just fall in your lap. As far as the sagging goes...... honey all women sag even if they havnt lost weight. We just sag a bit more than they do. So dont be so tough on yourself. Its ok. Look at Kenya who had the same fears and now she has a fella wanting to marry her.
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:29 PM   #3 (permalink)
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5' 9"
Height:
258 lb
Start Weight:
151 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
107 lb
Weight Loss:
-14 lb
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41.4728682171 %
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04/19/2008
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38.0957781979
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i felt the same way you do. and sometimes i feel a bit insecure. but he right person wont care. i know this to be true give it time. sometimes the very thing we are lookng for falls right in our laps

i forgot to add...ive also had a child and plan to have more. so the sag is something he will have to be use to lol! im not 18 anymore to begin with so it's pretty much understood.

dont be down on yourself. as you grown into the new you, you will also develop this new level of comfort with yourself.
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:48 PM   #4 (permalink)
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5' 6"
Height:
344 lb
Start Weight:
225 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
119 lb
Weight Loss:
65 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
34.5930232558 %
% Lost:
1-09
Goal Date:

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36.3119834711
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Thanks girls it's just really tough sometimes. I'm not getting any younger and sometimes it's hard to believe( he's) out there.Yes kenya you are an insp., in more ways than one, I hope mine comes along,i've been waiting a long time. Vickie you seem you are as sweet and smart like my big sis(vicki) so I hope you're right.I hate crying!!!!
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Old 04-06-2008, 04:54 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Current Weight:
165 lb
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107 lb
Weight Loss:
-14 lb
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41.4728682171 %
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04/19/2008
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aww dont cry. it's when you stop looking that it happends.
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Old 04-06-2008, 05:05 PM   #6 (permalink)
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230 lb
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139 lb
Current Weight:
115 lb
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91 lb
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24 lb
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39.5652173913 %
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12/31/08
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Old 04-06-2008, 05:30 PM   #7 (permalink)
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145 lb
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120 lb
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6 lb
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The interesting thing about online "chatting" is that you can get to know people without the pressure of dating, then just see where it leads. join some sites that you have interests in. Also, get out there and live your life. Get healthy and enjoy yourself, it will give others an opportunity to meet you doing things you love. What do you like to do? What things are you passionate about? Is there a particular charity or social issue you would like to become more involved in? What about religious meetings? Good luck~~~~
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Old 04-06-2008, 05:53 PM   #8 (permalink)
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308 lb
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11 lb
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sometime in 2009
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Aawwww don't cry (((HUGS)). You are a wonderful, priceless person. when it is your time to meet the right man you will. Everything happens for a reason. When it is time for your destiny to be fulfilled, it will happen. To attract the right person, you have to love yourself. When you love yourself, you open up yourself to love others and for others to love you back. When you finally have self love, you will shine like a star and then people can't help but be attracted to you!! LOVE, LIVE, LAUGH. All else will fall into place
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Old 04-06-2008, 06:12 PM   #9 (permalink)
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280 lb
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148 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
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132 lb
Weight Loss:
-2 lb
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47.1428571429 %
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Summer 2008
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22.5008650519
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Old 04-06-2008, 06:20 PM   #10 (permalink)
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286 lb
Start Weight:
182 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
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104 lb
Weight Loss:
32 lb
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36.3636363636 %
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32.2363315697
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I know SOOOOO many people who met on-line, but not right away. Sometimes it takes a while. We all worry about the 'what if's' in life, but just be happy with yourself without a man and the rest will fall into place. The self esteem issue is tough for most women, but especially for us wls gals.
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