welcome, sorry to hear what the shrink had to say, it couldnt hurt to have a second opinion..they do their eval and only see what is on paper, i believe u are the only one who truly knows if you are ready...a friend of mine is going thru the process right now and had alot of problems with the shrink part of it and he just finally oked her for surgery, so it will happen, keep ur fingers crossed and good luck!!
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