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02-21-2007, 06:14 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: McGuire Air Force Base, New Jersey, USA
Posts: 2,495
Height:   |  Since I have been gone...... Okay so I know that there has probably rightfully been some speculation since I have been so obviously missing in action as of lately. Well here is what has been going on in my world. I am deciding to get a divorce. This has not been an easy decision in my life and is probably the hardest thing I have ever had to do, but please trust and respect me when I say that it is neccessary. I have kinda been busy lately with the kids and babysitting, and trying to work through some things. Just so everyone is clear on something....this is not something that is resulting from him being gone on his deployment. I was preparing to leave him before we found out he was leaving. I tried to make this marriage work for over 8 years and I am done and emotionally spent. I appreciate all of those of you that were so supportive to me and I will try to pop my head in once in awhile to see how the gang is doing. I am sorry that it has taken me so long to post. I hope everyone is doing great and that my friends on here know how much I love them. Janae |
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02-21-2007, 06:20 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: SOMEPLACE LONG ISLAND, NY
Posts: 6,756
Weight Statistics June 1, 2005 Start Date:
Height: 310 lb Start Weight:
167 lb Current Weight:
159 lb Goal Weight:
143 lb Weight Loss:
8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.1290322581 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 51 BMI Start:
27 BMI Current:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass   | (((HUG)))))!! I know your doing whats best for "YOU" and thats what matters most! ALL the best and do keep in touch! hugs
__________________ LISA  http://w5.photobucket.com/widgets/dy...164/fr1endly2/ LAP RNY Gastric Bypass  |
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02-21-2007, 06:50 AM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Milford Kansas
Posts: 1,205
Weight Statistics 09/01/2006 Start Date:
5' 4" Height: 254 lb Start Weight:
144 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
110 lb Weight Loss:
4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.3070866142 % % Lost:
02/01/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 43.5942382812 BMI Start:
24.71484375 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | We are all here for you.. ((((HUG)))) Just want to see you HAPPY!!! |
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02-21-2007, 07:02 AM
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| Super Moderator  | ((((((((HUGS))))))))) Do what is best for you, your children, and your husband. When being together does not make you happy, it harms both of you and it harms the children. I am sure you have done your best up to now, and this was no easy decision. I am sure God will give you peace with your decision. May your new life be a spiritually fulfilling one for you. (((((((HUGS)))))))
__________________ "In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun."   Just a li'l bit 'bout myself  |
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02-21-2007, 08:45 AM
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| Guru In Training  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Kentucky
Posts: 216
Weight Statistics 11-30-06 Start Date:
5' 5" Height: 236 lb Start Weight:
139 lb Current Weight:
155 lb Goal Weight:
97 lb Weight Loss:
-16 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.1016949153 % % Lost:
11-30-07 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 39.2681656805 BMI Start:
23.1282840237 BMI Current:
25.7905325444 BMI Goal:
| Janae, I am so sorry to hear that. I know that has to be tough under the best of circumstances. But Doc is right. When you are in an unhappy marriage, you and the children suffer. Whatever you decide, and if you go through the divorce, I wish you the best. I hope you find peace with the whole situation.
__________________ Tammy surgery date 11/30/06 It's never too late to be what you want to be. Keep looking forward, never back.   Last edited by howietam : 02-21-2007 at 08:46 AM. Reason: mistake |
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02-21-2007, 09:07 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Kuwait
Posts: 2,341
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics for ever! Start Date:
4/18/06 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 335 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
154 lb Goal Weight:
158 lb Weight Loss:
23 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.1641791045 % % Lost:
9/18/07 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.3361048123 BMI Start:
31.350718065 BMI Current:
27.2768959436 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |  My heart is with you Jeanea Dear Janea, I'm sure this life is full of hard tests, this may be the toughest for you. As much we hate these moments as much they make us stronger and stronger. I pray for you, may our God bring you peace and happiness. I want you to know that I am here for you, please let me know if I can help at any time. I love you so much and I'm proud of you.  Lots of Love, Hanadi
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02-21-2007, 10:15 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC the best place in the world to live!
Posts: 2,923
Weight Statistics Halloween 2005 Start Date:
4' 11" Height: 212 lb Start Weight:
127 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
85 lb Weight Loss:
-3 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.0943396226 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 42.8141338696 BMI Start:
25.6480896294 BMI Current:
26.2539500144 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Awww sorry to hear your having a tough time. Divorce is never easy but being in an unhappy marriage is worse. You do what you feel is right for you. It will prob be a tough road so be tough and follow your heart. We are here for you. LittleLisaMarie 
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02-21-2007, 10:35 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Spartanburg, South Carolina
Posts: 751
Weight Statistics 22 August 06 Start Date:
5' 4" Height: 262 lb Start Weight:
156 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
106 lb Weight Loss:
16 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.4580152672 % % Lost:
SOON!!!!!!!! Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 44.9672851562 BMI Start:
26.7744140625 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | {{{{{{{BIG SQUISHY HUGGSSS}}}}} We are all here for you. I know this has not come easy for you. It is yet another part of your journey. Be strong, and when you can't, we will be strong for you.
__________________ Michele Open RNY Gastric Bypass I HAVE A BABY SPOON AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT!   |
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02-21-2007, 11:16 AM
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| WLS Guru  Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: mississippi
Posts: 353
Weight Statistics January 2007 Start Date:
May/June??? Surgery Date:
Height: 350 lb Start Weight:
330 lb Current Weight:
200 lb Goal Weight:
20 lb Weight Loss:
130 lb Lb Left to Lose:
5.71428571429 % % Lost:
December Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 54 BMI Start:
53 BMI Current:
31 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Controlled Eating & Exercise | Hey Janae, I am so sorry to hear about this. I know that it must have been a hard decision. These things are never easy. You know what is best for you and owe no one an explanation. You take your time to get over what needs to be tended to. Take some time for yourself. I hope it all works out for you. Thanks for giving us an update and I hope to be hearing from you soon!!! I will keep you in my prayers during this hard time!!! Dawn
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02-21-2007, 11:54 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Davenport, IA
Posts: 982
Weight Statistics 12/28/06 Start Date:
May 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 253 lb Start Weight:
184 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
69 lb Weight Loss:
34 lb Lb Left to Lose:
27.2727272727 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 42.0968047337 BMI Start:
30.6158579882 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
| I'm sorry to hear this, but you know we are all behind you. I read that a very high percent of women that have this surgery get divorced. The reason being that when they were heavy they had very low self esteem and settled for a man that was not their equal. After losing the weight they have the self esteem to realize they deserve to be happy. You deserve to be happy. I have one question though, while he is deployed you cannot divorce him can you? Don't you have to wait until he is state side? Anyway, I wish you the best. This is a very hard decision to make and I am glad you found the courage to do so.
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