Part of it probably depends on what your perception of "connected" is.
If you keep on posting, starting threads with your questions, your ups, your downs, people will chime in, offer advice, offer encouragement, offer hugs.
It's much like real life--takes time before you find a seat that feels comfortable.
In the meanwhile, check out the following thread to discover what's where, and what to do. Once you get the hang of the place, it probably will be easier for you.
http://www.renewedreflections.com/fo...his-board.html
(((HUGS)))