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Old 08-06-2007, 08:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Has anyone ever went home after surgery, and thought what in the world did I do?
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Old 08-06-2007, 08:13 PM   #2 (permalink)
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3-16-2007
Start Date:
July 23, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
284 lb
Start Weight:
178 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
106 lb
Weight Loss:
18 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
37.323943662 %
% Lost:
7-23-08
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44.4758298062
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27.8756961461
BMI Current:
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Probably all of us....LOL

My daughter told me that when they brought me home and put me to bed, I told them "this might not have been a good ideal" LOL

I don't rember even saying it....
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Old 08-06-2007, 08:14 PM   #3 (permalink)
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June 12, 2007
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5' 5"
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330 lb
Start Weight:
213 lb
Current Weight:
180 lb
Goal Weight:
117 lb
Weight Loss:
33 lb
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December, 2008
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Yeah, the night they brought me home, I said the same thing. Now, I say why didn't I do this sooner?
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Old 08-06-2007, 08:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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4/1/07
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258 lb
Start Weight:
151 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
107 lb
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41.4728682171 %
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04/19/2008
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22.2963663096
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I thought that IN the hospital, when i got home , the next week a month later etc etc lol! its VERY normal. once you settle into the routine and your brain adjusts it becomes a distant memory.... I'm still waiting for it to be a distant memory

HAHAHAHAHAHAAH! I dunno.... I have what some call a dry sense of humor. I am not by any means trying to scare or discourage anyone. You have to take each day with a grain of salt or you will go nuts second guessing yourself. This whole things is a process and it takes time.
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Old 08-06-2007, 08:51 PM   #5 (permalink)
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June 18, 2007
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333 lb
Start Weight:
184 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
149 lb
Weight Loss:
19 lb
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44.7447447447 %
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February 25, 2009
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26.3983673469
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I came home Friday afternoon, after they took the morphine pump out. I figured, why should I be here if I can't control the meds. I'm outta here.

Saturday I was OK - though still sore and groggy from pain meds.

Sunday I woke up and immediately started bawling. What the hell did I do to myself? What made me think I would never want to eat a bacon double cheeseburger ketchup only again? I want to go to the movies and have popcorn! Why did I think I would be able to go to the theatre and NOT have popcorn. I made a huge mistake!

Monday, and Tuesday, much more of the same.

Renewed Reflections help me to gain perspective. I could see from those just a few days ahead of me, that we all went through it, and what was coming up would be better than now and from the girls way out, I would be the person I wanted to be, both inside and out.

Its scarey as hell. I cried 6-8 times a day every day. I believe I was mourning... mourning my old lifestyle, my old food and eating habits. I believe that was the weight gain from being in hospital melted away and then additional weight melted away, I began to remember all my research, months of learning what to expect, and realized that this was what we wanted to do and I did make the right decision.

Each day is one more day. One more day you have to get your protein in, you have to get your fluids in, and one more day I have to remind myself all the reasons why I had this surgery. So I started a blog (Thanks Becka!) and I find that helps me too.

We are here for you and I am 11 days post op, I will tell you, it will get better. And if you find it tough, don't hesitate to ask for help. Help from us, from your surgeon, your PCP, or a therapist. Everyone wants you to succeed.

Sending blessings and strength your way...
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Old 08-06-2007, 09:04 PM   #6 (permalink)
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9/7/06
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160 lb
Goal Weight:
78 lb
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Sure did...thought I made the biggest mistake in m life!! But, shortly realized stop thinking these dumb thoughts!!
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Old 08-06-2007, 09:42 PM   #7 (permalink)
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It's normal, everyone has those second thoughts. It's a time for readjusting your perspective, and if you DIDN'T have these second thoughts, you may find yourself in hot water later.

For a lot of things, the thought process is,
Panic
Anger
Despair
Acceptance
Immediately post op, is your panic stage. What did I do to myself?
Then you'll be angry at all the food CMs, the stuff others are eating, etc etc when you're on liquids and pureeds as well.
Then you'll have fear that you've done something wrong, despair that this isn't going to work for you.
Finally, you realize that the surgery is only a tool, a means for you to reset your life and start aknew, so the biggest part of the work has to be done by YOU, and you start busting your @$$ because you want to trust in yourself that you will get there.

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Old 08-06-2007, 09:46 PM   #8 (permalink)
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07-15-06
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07-25-06
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5' 9"
Height:
272 lb
Start Weight:
130 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
142 lb
Weight Loss:
-20 lb
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52.2058823529 %
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07-25-07
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19.195547154
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Oh gosh did I ever...right after I woke up I told hubby that I had changed my mind....and did just about every day until I realized how much better I was feeling while the weight was coming off ...I still have days where I think what was I thinking (still a mental loss of food for me) but they are getting far and few between...when I talk about it to others I quickly get over it
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Old 08-06-2007, 10:28 PM   #9 (permalink)
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07/23/2007
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5' 2"
Height:
230 lb
Start Weight:
120 lb
Current Weight:
125 lb
Goal Weight:
110 lb
Weight Loss:
-5 lb
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47.8260869565 %
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June 23 2008
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42.0629552549
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21.9458896982
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omg i THOUGHT THAT IN RECOVERY, IN MY ROOM THE NEXT DAY AND THE DAY AFTER...NOW i AM HAPPY i DID IT...I have lost 25 pounds in 2 weeks ....never would I have done that on my own
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Old 08-06-2007, 10:33 PM   #10 (permalink)
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6/16/2007 meda-fast
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July 19,2007
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325 lb
Start Weight:
201 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
124 lb
Weight Loss:
51 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
38.1538461538 %
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no time line i just want it to be lost
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I think each and every one of use has that though. I tryed to prepair and prepair myself for what it was going to be like after wards but you dont know until you are in that situation.

My first thought the morning after my surgery they were takeing me down to have my upper gi to check for leach. I was so frightend and scared i sobb and cry becuse i was going to have to try to drink that stuff. my surgen stood over my bed and told me please stop crying it will be quick and if you shood vomit then there are all the nice people here ta clean ya up. I smiled and i went in and i did it.

I have had so many days when things have made me think was this the right disision is this what i really whan.

I look at this way i shore in heck no i didn't want a hart attack that ended up posable paralizing me or makeing me into a vegg or so my husband would have to take care of me for the rest of my life.

I know I am healling not only my scares from surgery now but my new leash on life. the other night my husband was eating a big steak, salt potatos, corn on the cob, so yum! yum!

I first thought o i wish i could have that. Then my new thoughts jumped in why. Why do you miss it?

truth is I don't miss all that food that was trying to kill me. That food that was sucken every bit of life out of me

NO I DON"T WANT THAT AT ALL

I wanna be helthy, I wanna eat things good for my body, I wanna run my body like the machine it is. not lod it up with fat colestaral and sugar and sufficate it

so do i have my days when i get week yes but do the strong days out way the week yep er
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