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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 4,760
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
164 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
123 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.8571428571 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.4872528616 BMI Start:
29.9927159209 BMI Current:
25.6035379813 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Yes mam! I talked to her a few times about that. I didnt want her feeling like it was her fault on top of everything else! I did tell her that she did the right thing by calling me and talking to the police even though they made it in nothing at all. Thank you all for your support, it really means alot to me!!! You guys are awesome! |
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| | #32 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas
Posts: 1,680
Weight Statistics 3-16-2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
294 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
117 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.7959183673 % % Lost:
7-23-08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.0418801515 BMI Start:
27.7190911116 BMI Current:
25.0568055246 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Way to go Kim. She is lucky to have you in her corner. Keep us posted on the situation. Will be praying for you both.
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Hawaii
Posts: 4,145
Blog Entries: 10 Weight Statistics 07/23/2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
230 lb Start Weight:
125 lb Current Weight:
125 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
45.652173913 % % Lost:
June 23 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.0629552549 BMI Start:
22.860301769 BMI Current:
22.860301769 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Kim...I am about to share some pretty personal stuff...I just want to tell you that when I was a teen I wish I had an aunt like you when I was a teen. When I was 15 I had a huge crush on a friend of my dads, well he was 27....needless to say being that I was a teen and thought I was in love I started "seeing" this guy...sex was all it was in reality. We kept it a secret from my dad but all my aunts on my Moms side new about it and did NOTHING. We continue this for 3 years until I was 18 when he dumped me for my best friend who was 23...they eventually got married...I was devistated and didnt realize until I had my own child that this was molestation. I wish my family had stepped in and done something for me back then, even if I was in "LOVE" with this guy...I realise now it wasnt love...anyways thank you for being the role model your niece and nephew needs |
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| Whipper Snapper Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Romulus, MI
Posts: 35
Weight Statistics July 24, 2007 Start Date:
July 24, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 1"
Height:
343 lb Start Weight:
203 lb Current Weight:
180 lb Goal Weight:
140 lb Weight Loss:
23 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.8163265306 % % Lost:
2 years Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 64.8022037087 BMI Start:
38.3523246439 BMI Current:
34.006987369 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
You keep saying there is not much you can do, as you are not the legal guardian of the girl. What is the mom doing?? Is she interested in pushing this?? I certainly hope so. As an employee of the public schools I see way too many parents that are apethetic to their kids
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| Big Loser Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: North Dakota
Posts: 195
Weight Statistics September 21st Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
300 lb Start Weight:
222 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
78 lb Weight Loss:
72 lb Lb Left to Lose:
26 % % Lost:
whatever happens! Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 54.8647242456 BMI Start:
40.5998959417 BMI Current:
27.4323621228 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
What a horrible thing to happen - your neice is VERY lucky to have you there for her!
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| | #36 (permalink) |
| Cub Reporter Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Salt Lake City, Ut
Posts: 63
Weight Statistics June 6, 2007 Start Date:
June 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
285 lb Start Weight:
193 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
92 lb Weight Loss:
43 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.2807017544 % % Lost:
June 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 48.9147949219 BMI Start:
33.1247558594 BMI Current:
25.7446289062 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Kim, Just read your day from hell. Excuse my language but that man needs his Ass kicked!!! He should be in jail for any lewd acts like that. I have 0 tolerance for preditors!! Good luck sweetie. I'm glad she has you!!!
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| | #37 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 4,760
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
164 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
123 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.8571428571 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.4872528616 BMI Start:
29.9927159209 BMI Current:
25.6035379813 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Oh Becka...I am so sorry that you had to go thru that. I know that all girls end up with a "crush" on someone like that, but it is up to the "adult" to be the responsible one in that situation. Thank you for sharing a story like that...I know it must have been hard to let out. This is hard for anyone and everyone involved. I am actually going to go in fora few hours today and go pick them up. Mom is really going crazy over this because she felt like she wasnt there to protect the kids and let them go meet dad against her better judgement. As for me not being able to do anything...I meant that all I can do is support,since NO ONE will even begin to talk to me about it. Mom is there standing up for her kids, but I just want to be able to do more. She was really young when she had them and I was there. I think that I kept them more than the parents did when they were little. The step dad is right there by their side ready and willing to do anything to protect "his" kids. By no means are they sitting by and sweeping it under the rug. I am just the type of person who can take control in a bad situation where some can not and I feel like I want to be doing more than just standing behind them. Hopefully something will come out of today with everyone's advice. They want to get her in to see a counselor as she is really having a hard time with this. The whole story got even deeper over the weekend. Apparently my nieces boyfriend has been trying to contact her all week and the dads gf told him that she was off with her new bf and didnt want anything to do with him anymore. THis "lady" is close to 50!!! She needs some real help too. I think that they are going to push for somehting with her as well. I think that they both need to be locked up. I will let you know how it goes this afternoon. |
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| | #38 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 4,760
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
164 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
123 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.8571428571 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.4872528616 BMI Start:
29.9927159209 BMI Current:
25.6035379813 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Ok, we went to the States Atty and they are going to open an investigation into this with the help of Childrens Service. Finally someone is taking this as serious. This guy has quite a few things against him and they dont want to let it slide. I am so happy! They requested a restraining order and trespassing warrant since he knows where they live and are going to try to get the $$ for it back from him when and IF it goes to court! They really made my niece feel at ease when they talked to her today and reinforced the fact that she did everything right and he was completely inthe wrong. That is it for now, I guess that we wont know anythign more until they finish with their investigation. Thank you all so much for taking the time to let me vent and being there! You guys are my family and I value each and every one of your opinions and input. ((((HUGGGGS))))
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Thank goodness things have been set on the right track. I'm sure your neice will come out a stronger and finer person for this, such experiences is excruciating, but set in the right context, will help you mature into a responsible adult. Becka, thank you for sharing what must have been a very painful experience for you. I take it the care of your Home Ec teacher you mentioned in another thread helped you in healing and maturing. How important it is to have caring adults for the welfare of children.
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: May 2007 Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 2,741
Weight Statistics April 11th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
267 lb Start Weight:
142 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
125 lb Weight Loss:
-8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.8164794007 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 45.8254394531 BMI Start:
24.3715820312 BMI Current:
25.7446289062 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |
Kim glad to hear that things went well today. Was thinking of you guys...Your family is lucky they have someone like you to be there for them.
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