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Old 09-22-2007, 11:03 AM   #1 (permalink)
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March 2007
Start Date:
July 10
Surgery Date:
Height:
257 lb
Start Weight:
187 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
70 lb
Weight Loss:
22 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
27.2373540856 %
% Lost:
July 2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
44
BMI Start:
34
BMI Current:
26
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I should be so happy now and I'm not. I completed my degree this month. I no longer have to work and go to school. My weight loss is going well. Yet my husband is driving me insane. I choose to have the surgery because of weight gain associated with lupus and asthma. Both conditions are treated with prednisone. I have been taking steroids for the last 16 years.

Not only am I accused of everything and everyone under the sun, I now have to fight over the stupidiest things. Paying bills have become a major battle ground. My husband works for Coke and am a Lab Tech at Emory. We have been together for over 9 years. HIs behavior is steadly getting worse each month. It had started even before my surgery.

We fought over 2 hours because I bought Hungry man pancake mix instead of Aunt Jemina. I wore one of his tee shorts and that caused total war for about 2 days. I feel he's draining me of all my joy. I've gotten to the point I hate to be home when he's home. To top off everything, I own the house.

I'm sorry for such a long posting I'm just really ready to consult a divorce lawyer since he refuses couseling.
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:06 AM   #2 (permalink)
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April 11th 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
267 lb
Start Weight:
153 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
114 lb
Weight Loss:
3 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
42.6966292135 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
45.8254394531
BMI Start:
26.2595214844
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25.7446289062
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Sorry to hear your having trouble at home. That is the nice thing about this place though. You can come here to vent and get advise even if its not weight related.

There are always people here to bounce things off of. Hang in there.
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:08 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:13 AM   #4 (permalink)
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July 21, 2007
Start Date:
August 6, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
287 lb
Start Weight:
172 lb
Current Weight:
140 lb
Goal Weight:
115 lb
Weight Loss:
32 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
40.0696864111 %
% Lost:
January 1, 2009
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
52.4872528616
BMI Start:
31.4557752341
BMI Current:
25.6035379813
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AWE, I am so sorry that you are going through this. I do hope that things get better for you. Its got to be hard especially when you are so new out to the surgery on top of it.
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Old 09-22-2007, 11:37 AM   #5 (permalink)
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7/16/07
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7/16/07
Surgery Date:
4' 11"
Height:
230 lb
Start Weight:
139 lb
Current Weight:
115 lb
Goal Weight:
91 lb
Weight Loss:
24 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
39.5652173913 %
% Lost:
12/31/08
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
46.4492961793
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28.0715311692
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23.2246480896
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Wow Hun You Have A Lot On Your Plate. Im So Sorry Your Going Thru This.
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Old 09-22-2007, 12:00 PM   #6 (permalink)
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4/1/07
Start Date:
4/19/07
Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
258 lb
Start Weight:
146 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
112 lb
Weight Loss:
-19 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
43.4108527132 %
% Lost:
04/19/2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
38.0957781979
BMI Start:
21.5580760344
BMI Current:
24.36357908
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sorry you are going thru a rought patch. i have no advice im sorry. i the LAST person to give anyone relationship advice. but i will say this, just when you cant take it anymore, throw on some headphones and go for a walk. exercise. dont get all worked up unless you're gonna use the energy chin up. one day at a time.
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Old 09-25-2007, 10:19 AM   #7 (permalink)
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March 2007
Start Date:
July 10
Surgery Date:
Height:
257 lb
Start Weight:
187 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
70 lb
Weight Loss:
22 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
27.2373540856 %
% Lost:
July 2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
44
BMI Start:
34
BMI Current:
26
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
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Old 09-25-2007, 10:21 AM   #8 (permalink)
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June 1, 2005
Start Date:
Height:
310 lb
Start Weight:
167 lb
Current Weight:
159 lb
Goal Weight:
143 lb
Weight Loss:
8 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
46.1290322581 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
51
BMI Start:
27
BMI Current:

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I dont know its not easy
cause i know looking back on my first pop year
i was the moody emotional mess
and noticed i had bad mood swings....
i dunno it is what we battle post op.
HANG in there and lots of positive
thoughts that things get better
for u guys!
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Old 09-26-2007, 02:16 AM   #9 (permalink)
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05/17/02
Start Date:
05/17/02
Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
355 lb
Start Weight:
192 lb
Current Weight:
175 lb
Goal Weight:
163 lb
Weight Loss:
17 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
45.9154929577 %
% Lost:
may 2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
59.0686390533
BMI Start:
31.9469822485
BMI Current:
29.1183431953
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um...his behavior that you are describing sounds abusive to me..You definitely deserve better than that !
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Old 09-26-2007, 05:14 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Halloween 2005
Start Date:
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Height:
212 lb
Start Weight:
127 lb
Current Weight:
130 lb
Goal Weight:
85 lb
Weight Loss:
-3 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
40.0943396226 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
42.8141338696
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25.6480896294
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26.2539500144
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I should be so happy now and I'm not. I completed my degree this month. I no longer have to work and go to school. My weight loss is going well. Yet my husband is driving me insane. I choose to have the surgery because of weight gain associated with lupus and asthma. Both conditions are treated with prednisone. I have been taking steroids for the last 16 years.

Not only am I accused of everything and everyone under the sun, I now have to fight over the stupidiest things. Paying bills have become a major battle ground. My husband works for Coke and am a Lab Tech at Emory. We have been together for over 9 years. HIs behavior is steadly getting worse each month. It had started even before my surgery.

We fought over 2 hours because I bought Hungry man pancake mix instead of Aunt Jemina. I wore one of his tee shorts and that caused total war for about 2 days. I feel he's draining me of all my joy. I've gotten to the point I hate to be home when he's home. To top off everything, I own the house.

I'm sorry for such a long posting I'm just really ready to consult a divorce lawyer since he refuses couseling.

If you need to talk PM me or email me..... LittleLisaMarie
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