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11-28-2007, 08:11 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 757
Weight Statistics 6/16/2007 meda-fast Start Date:
July 19,2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
325 lb Start Weight:
187 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
138 lb Weight Loss:
37 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.4615384615 % % Lost:
no time line i just want it to be lost Goal Date:
Body Mass Index52.4506427916 BMI Start:
30.1792929293 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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O my goss I really hate the girls at my solan that i have to work with. They are so mean. I have worked at this solan for quite some time now and you would not be leave what i deal with on a day to day bases I only stay because i love my customers.
The girls i work with are such b's they talk about people behind there backs they whisper all the time. There all in denial that they are obease! for years they have had a money problem at my shop long before i even went there to work. But every time they want someone gone money starts comeing up missing left and right.
Well now It all come into my boat. these witches have been talking about me behind my back. That i have lost weight and now im a bitch NO IM NOT IM THE SAME ASHLEY I WAS! They just perseve things different on me as a smaller person when im mad it does not look fluffy anymore. As for stealing money O my GOD I could never. I cant even beleave this. I am being set up and i dont even know what to do. From what i understand they already have my boss on there side.
O my goodness I am sooooooooooo up set  
Is this harassment is there anything i can do i swear i have not stolen anything. all i have done is loose some wait and i cant even talk to anyone.
I really don't wanna have to be looking for a job right around the holidays but i feel thats going to happen
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11-28-2007, 09:07 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 3,605
Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
271 lb Start Weight:
175 lb Current Weight:
182 lb Goal Weight:
96 lb Weight Loss:
-7 lb Lb Left to Lose:
35.4243542435 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index43.7357667585 BMI Start:
28.2426538108 BMI Current:
29.3723599633 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Ashley, I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this! It's always a pain when you have to deal with crap like that and makes it harder to go to work in such a hostile environment. I'm sure you'll come up with a good solution. Hang in there - Love the new picture, by the way!!!!
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11-28-2007, 09:13 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Davenport, IA
Posts: 1,848
Weight Statistics 12/28/06 Start Date:
May 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
253 lb Start Weight:
191 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
62 lb Weight Loss:
41 lb Lb Left to Lose:
24.5059288538 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index42.0968047337 BMI Start:
31.780591716 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Ashley, I am sorry to hear this but maybe it's time for a change. Can you find a job with another salon in your area? It would serve them right if you did and took all your clients with you!
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11-28-2007, 09:16 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC the best place in the world to live!
Posts: 3,453
Weight Statistics Halloween 2005 Start Date:
4' 11"
Height:
212 lb Start Weight:
127 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
85 lb Weight Loss:
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40.0943396226 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index42.8141338696 BMI Start:
25.6480896294 BMI Current:
26.2539500144 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Along this journey and in life you are always going to find HATERS. These people do whatever they can to make you look bad in order to make themselves look good. {at least they think that}. I am so sorry you are dealing with this crap, like you need more drama in your life. With the Holidays try to hang in there as long as you can but get your resume together and start looking NOW. You can always let your regular customers know where you m ove to and if they are loyal they will follow. Never stay at a place you are not happy, espically if you have to go to work every day. Things are a little tough for you right now but i promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel. God has some plan. When one door closes another opens so hang in there.....im here for you.
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11-28-2007, 09:26 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 5,236
Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
280 lb Start Weight:
154 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
126 lb Weight Loss:
4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index42.5692041522 BMI Start:
23.4130622837 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I'm with Spikey....changes are a pain in the tush, but sometimes they are the biggest blessings...walk away with your dignity in tact, knowing you did nothing wrong....leave these people behind you and move forward...I know it's easier said than done...but if it were me, I'd find a way to make an exit!!
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11-28-2007, 09:27 AM
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#6 (permalink)
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Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 757
Weight Statistics 6/16/2007 meda-fast Start Date:
July 19,2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
325 lb Start Weight:
187 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
138 lb Weight Loss:
37 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.4615384615 % % Lost:
no time line i just want it to be lost Goal Date:
Body Mass Index52.4506427916 BMI Start:
30.1792929293 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I totaly feel like i can not get a break these days between problems with my husband and problems with the job and trying to get this waight of. somethings gatta give here pritty soon
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11-28-2007, 09:34 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 4,019
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
9/28/07 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
279 lb Start Weight:
186 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
93 lb Weight Loss:
11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.3333333333 % % Lost:
18 months Goal Date:
Body Mass Index45.0268595041 BMI Start:
30.0179063361 BMI Current:
28.2426538108 BMI Goal:
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Ashley, keep your head up. You are going to make it through this. What God has for us is always better than the plans we have for ourselves. Sometimes, it's hard just to trust Him, but he ALWAYS knows what's best. Everything happens for a reason. Good luck and keep us posted.
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11-28-2007, 10:54 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Cheektowaga, New York
Posts: 452
Weight Statistics November7,2007 Start Date:
MARCH 11,2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
289 lb Start Weight:
171 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
118 lb Weight Loss:
-4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.830449827 % % Lost:
1 yr from surgery Goal Date:
Body Mass Index46.6407254362 BMI Start:
27.597107438 BMI Current:
28.2426538108 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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you know i can relate to how you feel , i haven't even had surgery yet and some people act different , go figure . but don't let them get you down just hold your head up and keep to yourself and do your eight and skate as we say where i work because the devil  is always busy . and here is a hug for you  hee hee hee !!!i love this smiley isn't it cute
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11-28-2007, 12:02 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Near St. Louis, MO.
Posts: 961
Weight Statistics 04/17/2007 Start Date:
April 30, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
296 lb Start Weight:
160 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
136 lb Weight Loss:
10 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.9459459459 % % Lost:
05/21/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index49.2515976331 BMI Start:
26.6224852071 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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((((Ashley))))
Lisa Marie hit the nail on the head! They are jealous, they want to put you down. Don't let them. And like she suggested, start looking so that you can tell your customers where you will be going. Good luck girl, and we're here if you need us.
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11-28-2007, 01:04 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Cottondale Alabama
Posts: 581
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
228 lb Start Weight:
135 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
93 lb Weight Loss:
-5 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.7894736842 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index40.3839758125 BMI Start:
23.9115646259 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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One of my favorite quotes from a friend "Let the slick end slide and the rough end drag!" In other words you can only do so much and worrying will only make you feel worse. The Lord does not give us more than we can handle and if one door closes He will open another. You know the truth...you did not take any money!! It is a shame tho that they feel intimidated by you and your successful weight loss, when they should feel inspired to be healthier too! I wish you all the best, your deserve it and I will say a pray for you too.  | |
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