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06-17-2006, 09:16 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2006
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5' 6" Height: |  Wench-like creature  OK guys. I need to confess that I feel like a real batch today. I have not acted out but I certainly am not myself. It started yesterday...a bit of a headache. I'm not hungry, I'm eating, drinking and doing my vits. and exercise. I just feel like a nasty batch!!! I can hardly stand myself. Is this to be expected? Is my liver getting rid of all the nasty stuff? God I hate this hormonal crap!!! I also feel guilty because I should be SO thankful that I have gone through the WLS and am on the right road now. I was at the cottage today with my family. Driving up I kept on thinking how happy I was and what a beautiful day and next thing you know, Sybil. I told my dear, sweet SIL that I was on the cusp of being ugly and she said she could tell. I hate it when I get like this. So after a polite amount of time I drove home...I mean if I can't stand myself why should other peopld have to deal? K. At least if anyone who has had the WLS already and can relate I feel like someone understands...even if I don't. Thanks for listening to my rant...Kat |
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06-17-2006, 09:25 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC ~ Love it!!!
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Weight Statistics 4/19/06 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 333 lb Start Weight:
171 lb Current Weight:
155 lb Goal Weight:
162 lb Weight Loss:
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010/19/08 Goal Date:
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Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass     |  Kat.... Thanks for sharing.... I've had my share of blueish / grey moments...and it is irritating. I hear that this is normal...and that in this situation you may be moody. I'm sorry you are having a bad time.  I had a friend tell me....didn't we have "blue days" before the surgery too...so, I don't know if mine was because of the WLS...but, I am trying to "deal" with these times as if I would any other moment like this... I can completely relate to not even standing yourself....and not wanting to subject anyone else...this made me 'gaffaw' a bit!!  WELL....keep it up...I'm thrilled that you were vulnerable and trusting...and that you shared this with all of us. Keep up the good work....take care of yourself...no matter what it looks like!! 
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06-17-2006, 10:53 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Kuwait
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4/18/06 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 335 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
154 lb Goal Weight:
158 lb Weight Loss:
23 lb Lb Left to Lose:
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Body Mass Index 59.3361048123 BMI Start:
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Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |  ohhhh sweet SHH, ((((((((((HUG))))))))))) Listen mean people are around is since we were lil ones, if you wanna listen to stories simillar to yours I can start a new section in this forum heheheheh. Just throw them behind your back and move on. I know you're a sensitive person and people like yourself and I keep rewining that ugly situation 100 times in our heads and blame our selves for nothing! we're perfectionist and because we were subjected to peoples judgment for so long long time now we want to become Miss perfect! Take it easy on yourself honey, it could be the hormons (TOM) tell you something I have this time extended all of the month heheheh sometimes I feel so down that I cannot even lift my kids or get out of the bed, let's forget our old habits and start a new shiny glamirous life. Endulge yourself go to the Spa or do a manicure, facial, change your hair cut/color I specified my last 2 weekends to do all of that! Wed. Thurs and Friday 3 days of pure fat endulgance! I deserve it! I'd better get dressed up, need to get to work. Have a good one Doody
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06-18-2006, 05:07 AM
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| Super Moderator  | Kat, you'll be having emotional ups and downs, that's why many post ops call this a roller coaster ride. Besides that, age wise, I imagine you'd be going through expected female hormonal changes as well. Blues from that is common, too, though so far, I'm lucky I haven't had it very bad. However, I've had some of my best friends suddenly turn emotional for no apperent reason, except that we're in that age bracket. If you can ride it out in a day or two, fine, but if your negative emotions get bad enough that it inteferes with your daily life and decision making, seeking professional help is a viable option. In any case, ((((((HUGS)))))) hope a good night's sleep will have you waking up chipper and happy.
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06-18-2006, 06:58 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: SOMEPLACE LONG ISLAND, NY
Posts: 6,756
Weight Statistics June 1, 2005 Start Date:
Height: 310 lb Start Weight:
167 lb Current Weight:
159 lb Goal Weight:
143 lb Weight Loss:
8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.1290322581 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 51 BMI Start:
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Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I will say as being the YEAR OUT!!! I had bouts with being one ugly witch at times.....and i get many battles with blues and depression. I get thru it..but its hard. I do find my PMS and lady cycels to be worse then ever as well which also makes me evil. I know my hormones are all off but i get thru it... (poor family, they got the brunt of it) hang in there days like that are to be expected. THERE were many times i just didnt and still dont understand why im not so happy with the amount of weight i lost but this is just another part of this fabulous journey! IN all i would still do this again! HANG in there hugzzzzzzzzzzz
__________________ LISA  http://w5.photobucket.com/widgets/dy...164/fr1endly2/ LAP RNY Gastric Bypass  |
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06-18-2006, 09:33 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: SOMEPLACE LONG ISLAND, NY
Posts: 6,756
Weight Statistics June 1, 2005 Start Date:
Height: 310 lb Start Weight:
167 lb Current Weight:
159 lb Goal Weight:
143 lb Weight Loss:
8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.1290322581 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 51 BMI Start:
27 BMI Current:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | HEY SHH before you take any PMS meds i would make sure its fine by the surgeons. I know some might have stuff in it thats not pouch friendly. JUST a thought im no expert all the best
__________________ LISA http://w5.photobucket.com/widgets/dy...164/fr1endly2/ LAP RNY Gastric Bypass |
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06-19-2006, 08:54 AM
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| WLS Mentor  | See, now this is where Marg. comes in. I imagine we'll all be seeing much more of her after the surgery. hehe but seriously, Kat, i'm so sorry you have to experience this. I'm sorry that anybody has to experience this, and i haven't had the surgery yet so it may not be the same but with quitting smoking Marg has taken over a few times and been very mean to some of those i love. B**** and more. just remind yourself of all you have put your body through and realize that this is one of the less desirable side effects. and if others don't understand, well too bad for them. i know we don't want to put loved ones through these moods but it's something that's gonna happen, can't avoid it. I'll have to remember to warn people just before the surgery about this so they don't get to offended. ((((HUGS)))) Hope these moods don't last too long
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