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01-16-2008, 10:34 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 3,373
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
9/28/07 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
279 lb Start Weight:
190 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
89 lb Weight Loss:
15 lb Lb Left to Lose:
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Body Mass Index 45.0268595041 BMI Start:
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I agree Kenya, just be you. You are so beautiful and save this conversation for later, if you determine that he's someone worth sharing it with.
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01-16-2008, 11:02 AM
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| WLS Guru  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Utah
Posts: 362
Weight Statistics 10/2/2007 Start Date:
10/5/2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
128 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
159 lb Weight Loss:
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Body Mass Index 47.7540828402 BMI Start:
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I wouldn't offer up the information. If he brings up the fact that you don't eat much, I would just say that you are trying to eat more healthy. I wouldn't lie about it if he asked directly, but I would want to know someone longer and be in a relationship before I offered up this much personal information. It not that I am embarrassed about it, but I don't give out a list of all my previous surgeries on a first date and I don't think you need to offer up WLS any sooner than an appendectomy 
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01-16-2008, 11:32 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 5,331
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
339 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
162 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.7876106195 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
28.5654269972 BMI Current:
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i agree i wouldnt bring it up, just see what happens, if it comes up it comes up. if things move forward it may be something you will discuss with him. just be you (the beautiful person you are inside and out) and things will go just fine. have fun girl!!
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01-16-2008, 03:04 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: WADING RIVER (Long Island), NY
Posts: 5,027
Weight Statistics 7/16/07 Start Date:
7/16/07 Surgery Date:
4' 11"
Height:
230 lb Start Weight:
130 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
100 lb Weight Loss:
15 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.4782608696 % % Lost:
12/31/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.4492961793 BMI Start:
26.2539500144 BMI Current:
23.2246480896 BMI Goal:
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I Dont See Why You Have To Tell Him Righ Now. You Guys Are Friends Right Now And Your Just Going Out To Have A Good Time. If It Comes Up Then If You Feel Comfortable Then Ok Tell Him But If It Doesnt Come Up Maybe See How The Relationship Goes And You Will Know When The Time Is Right
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01-16-2008, 04:31 PM
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| WLS Guru Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Michigan
Posts: 395
Weight Statistics 07/25/07 Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
288 lb Start Weight:
201 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
87 lb Weight Loss:
41 lb Lb Left to Lose:
30.2083333333 % % Lost:
08/2007 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 43.785467128 BMI Start:
30.5586072664 BMI Current:
24.3252595156 BMI Goal:
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I am in agreement with the others. I have had several surgeries and I don't discuss them with people I just know casually. Obviously, this guy is already attracted to you, you look beautiful! It will come up naturally when the time is right. Like when you take your clothes off for the first time and he sees the scars! LOL I wouldn't worry about it, just have a wonderful time!
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01-16-2008, 04:36 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 3,373
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
9/28/07 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
279 lb Start Weight:
190 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
89 lb Weight Loss:
15 lb Lb Left to Lose:
31.8996415771 % % Lost:
18 months Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 45.0268595041 BMI Start:
30.6634527089 BMI Current:
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oh my goodness. LOL at Courtney. We have already gone from the first date with the guy to the "first time you take your clothes off".
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01-16-2008, 06:16 PM
| #27 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 8,148
Weight Statistics all my life Start Date:
4/19/2007 Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
260 lb Start Weight:
143 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
117 lb Weight Loss:
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45 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 38.3910943079 BMI Start:
21.1151018694 BMI Current:
23.6252888049 BMI Goal:
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we sat and talked today on break. he is actually a very nice guy. he wanted to wait til next week (pay day) so HE could take ME out eventhough i asked him. thats sweet. i dont expect anyone to pay for me. but he insisted it was the right thing to do so next weekend it is. we are going to spend saturday together. doing what?? no idea but im going lol.
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01-16-2008, 06:51 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: PA (Near Philly)
Posts: 859
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics March 12, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
340 lb Start Weight:
239 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
101 lb Weight Loss:
89 lb Lb Left to Lose:
29.7058823529 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.8714416896 BMI Start:
38.5713957759 BMI Current:
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Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I agree with the girls, take it slow and at this point he doesn't need to know everything. I like the idea about telling him you have digestive problems and have to eat slow and often. He doesn't have to know why just yet.
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01-16-2008, 07:00 PM
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| WLS Guru Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Michigan
Posts: 395
Weight Statistics 07/25/07 Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
288 lb Start Weight:
201 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
87 lb Weight Loss:
41 lb Lb Left to Lose:
30.2083333333 % % Lost:
08/2007 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 43.785467128 BMI Start:
30.5586072664 BMI Current:
24.3252595156 BMI Goal:
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Gotta love a gentleman!! I love the fact that he wants to pay. Sorry, but I come from the old school and have raised my boys the sdame way. Men pay on dates, period!! If, after you are in a relationship a while, the woman wants to treat occasionally, that is okay. But women are a LUXURY, and shoudl be treated as such. Funny, I am very liberal on most things, but I stick to my guns on this one! No wonder my sons are always broke!! Anyway, Kenya, he sounds like he has potential. Have a great time!!
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01-16-2008, 09:16 PM
| #30 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Texas
Posts: 1,679
Weight Statistics 3-16-2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
294 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
117 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.7959183673 % % Lost:
7-23-08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.0418801515 BMI Start:
27.7190911116 BMI Current:
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I wouldn't tell him for awhile. Unless it becomes a serious relationship, then I would talk about it. I like Bree's answer...
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