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01-24-2008, 01:26 AM
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| Guru In Training  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NewEngland
Posts: 331
Weight Statistics 9/1/2006 Start Date:
5' 1"
Height:
278 lb Start Weight:
188 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
90 lb Weight Loss:
58 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.3741007194 % % Lost:
05/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.5219027143 BMI Start:
35.5184090298 BMI Current:
24.5606019887 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Physician Prescribed Diet/Exercise |  Spouses This is related to my weight loss only in the sense that I don't feel like cleaning up everyone else's yucky food/dishes. Here's the problem. I asked my husband to make dinner for him and my daughter tonight. He made big honkin' railroad tie french fries dipped in batter, WITH GRAVY. THAT was dinner!!! I had to offer my daughter lentils and carrots from last night which I had been gonna make into a soup. Now, my husband's supposed to have been washing dishes all night. Well it's 1:20 the next morning. Instead of do what he's supposed to, he managed to set the sink and kitchen curtain on fire. Then he was scrubbing the smoke stain, decided to wash some windows and hang a new curtain. Nice, but meanwhile the whole mess from dinner is still there WHAT IS THAT? Lately he cannot stay on one task, breaks everything in sight, and takes hours to do the simplest thing (which I LET him cause he aint gettin' out of it THAT east). This is my Dear Hubby who is usually such a doll, so helpful., etc., etc. Help Mya |
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01-24-2008, 01:32 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Hawaii
Posts: 4,142
Blog Entries: 10 Weight Statistics 07/23/2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
230 lb Start Weight:
125 lb Current Weight:
125 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
45.652173913 % % Lost:
June 23 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.0629552549 BMI Start:
22.860301769 BMI Current:
22.860301769 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass   |
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01-24-2008, 03:30 AM
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Mya,if I may say so, are you sure he isn't ill? If his present behavior is waaaay out of his regular realm, then that's the first thing that comes to my mind, and the cause can be physical or mental.
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01-24-2008, 10:16 AM
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| WLS Guru Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Sarasota, FL
Posts: 366
Weight Statistics October, 2007 Start Date:
11/26/07 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
272 lb Start Weight:
165 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
107 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.3382352941 % % Lost:
November, 08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5965693918 BMI Start:
25.8398306973 BMI Current:
21.924704834 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |
Ya know, I can get my husband to change a light bulb since my surgery. What's up with that. My kitchen is dark, now I have to go do it tonight. I don't know what to tell you other than did you handle everything before? How often do you ask him to make dinner? Certainly don't expect him to read your mind, my husband still makes carbs and starch. Give him another chance but this time ask him to make stuff carb free, that's what I do. He comes from the square meal upbringing, meat, carb and veggie, I ask him to cook without carbs when I'm eating what they're eating. It's hard to get them on your plan but they adjust eventually. If they don't , dont let him off the hook. Work with him, if he blows you off, then get mad.
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01-24-2008, 03:53 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Campbell River, BC
Posts: 171
Weight Statistics December 4 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
308 lb Start Weight:
163 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
145 lb Weight Loss:
-2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.0779220779 % % Lost:
May 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 48.2343506349 BMI Start:
25.5266206282 BMI Current:
25.8398306973 BMI Goal:
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I am sorry but I got quite the chuckle reading your post, however I do feel for you. It sounds like a short story of really unfortunate events.
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01-24-2008, 05:07 PM
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| Guru In Training Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: NewEngland
Posts: 331
Weight Statistics 9/1/2006 Start Date:
5' 1"
Height:
278 lb Start Weight:
188 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
90 lb Weight Loss:
58 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.3741007194 % % Lost:
05/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.5219027143 BMI Start:
35.5184090298 BMI Current:
24.5606019887 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Physician Prescribed Diet/Exercise | Doc you are right!!! My hubby and I BOTH suffer from depression and are BOTH not feeling great right now. He is usually ALWAYS the cook. He's a chef/ That's his 'thing'. We both take Lexapro. It's just I'm so tired of him screwing things up, breaking them, spilling them--and then being 'too angry' to clean up. I tried leaving one of his 'accidents' right where it was, but there it still sat 3 days later. So I try to be understanding and help out. Meanwhile I don't feel well myself. I feel like he's just plain passive-aggressive with the food thing, so he can see if I say anything negative--then get angry about me 'always criticizing him'. I don't know. I guess it's just a bad time. I'll be glad when winter is over. VT winters contribute greatly to our depression! Mya |
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01-24-2008, 07:19 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: PA (Near Philly)
Posts: 841
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics March 12, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
340 lb Start Weight:
242 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
98 lb Weight Loss:
92 lb Lb Left to Lose:
28.8235294118 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.8714416896 BMI Start:
39.0555555556 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | What ever is going on there it sounds like you guys need to get a handle on things before it gets worse, Perhaps he is having issues and he isn't even sure why. The hardest thing with most men is that getting them to talk is like pulling teeth. So what ever happens never stop talking,sometimes you hit the nail on the head and didn't even know you were aiming for it, you know... I hope things get better for you guys. P.S. Winter makes me just not myself either. Even if my thyroid numbers are ok I still have that winter blues.
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01-25-2008, 12:51 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 5,210
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
339 lb Start Weight:
177 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
162 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.7876106195 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
28.5654269972 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
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men! what els can i say?...lol (((HUGS)))
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01-25-2008, 01:55 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 2,040
Blog Entries: 8 Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
271 lb Start Weight:
143 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
128 lb Weight Loss:
-2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.2324723247 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 43.7357667585 BMI Start:
23.0782828283 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Okay, so everybody's different, and I can certainly see you had a stressful night. I basically gave up on this idea of my DH helping me do most anything. It was totally not worth the aggravation of getting him to do stuff, and it's almost like they want to fail so we just say nevermind, I'll do it. So, here's our deal (works at my house, not necessarily recommended for yours) I have my stuff, mostly anything inside. He has his stuff, mostly anything outside. If something he needs to do or does is not up to my satisfaction, I am welcome to do it myself. If something I do needs to be done or redone to his satisfaction, he is welcome to do it himself. Our rules - no fussing, no whining. We also have separate checkbooks ~ and I think separate sinks are a huge blessing too. Hey, how about a trip to a caribbean island or even a Florida beach? Good Luck!
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01-25-2008, 06:46 PM
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: PA (Near Philly)
Posts: 841
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics March 12, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
340 lb Start Weight:
242 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
98 lb Weight Loss:
92 lb Lb Left to Lose:
28.8235294118 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.8714416896 BMI Start:
39.0555555556 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | My X hubby used to break stuff and make messes because he didn't want to clean or what ever. Well I was working and he wasn't he didn't work for six years. Yeah Yeah I should have let him in the dust back then. Hind site right.. But I never gave up I didn't care how much I had to nag ,then I would say you know acting like that wont get you out of it and don't even give me crap about being a nagging wife you give me reason to nag. Grrrr I still grit my teeth when I think about that man...lol Thank God for my new hubby.. He is deff a God Send. When I couldn't walk up and down the basement steps anymore cause of my hip and feet problems. He just started doing the wash for me. He washes it and drys it and I fold and put away now that is a man.. NO you cant have him.lolol
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