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Old 02-09-2008, 11:14 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Question "I Love You" letters-Just in Case?

Hi everyone,
My surgery is coming up (March 6th), and I am thinking about writing personal letters to my mom, my sisters, my brother and aunts.
Has anyone written "I Love You" letters to your family, just in case???
If you have do you mind posting it here? I am having trouble coming up with the wording without becoming to macabre.
Thanks for any help you can offer.
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Old 02-09-2008, 11:53 PM   #2 (permalink)
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A lot of people do write such letters.
There hasn't been any threads/posts on this recently, but if you dig through threads from a year to 2 years back, you should be able to find them.
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Old 02-10-2008, 05:53 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Yes, any time that i have had a major surgery i wrote letters to all my kids, husband mother and brother......its normal and a way to put our minds to rest that in case god forbid soemting goes wrong we know they know that we were think ing about how much we love them.....I think its totally normal..Your going to do great.....
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Old 02-10-2008, 07:14 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I have heard of people doing that. I was so trusting in God to keep me safe I wouldnt let thoughts like that enter my mind. You have to do whats right for you but for me... wouldnt go there. I just knew He would keep me safe. Its called blind faith and men in the Bible are praise for that. I just had such a peace I cant explain it.

You will do great!! Congratulations on your NEW LIFE happening soon!!

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Old 02-10-2008, 07:19 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I didn't write letters, but every one either called me or I called them. Plus my son is only 3 1/2 and I have a journal that I update every so often and I keep little notes of what he's done or said to go into the updates. It's sort of a book to let him know what he did when. I grew up with a forgetful father, so I have no idea when I did what. But I have it all for my son and I did an entry the night before surgery and it was tops on my 'to do' list before I went.
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Old 02-10-2008, 07:28 AM   #6 (permalink)
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im sorry. i didnt write letters. the only thing i did was a letter of intent; a will type of document, with instructions as to what to do with my things and where i wanted my daugter to go...and its still in the envelope in the bag i took to the hospital lol. please trust that everything will be ok.
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Old 02-10-2008, 07:39 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I agree - I called everyone before I left and told them I loved them. I do that for trips as well with my family. Even if they are the ones travelling I will call and say that. I tell my family members and friends that I love them all the time with or without surgery. I think its the most important thing you can say to a person. Hubby, kids especially!!!

I felt my goodbye letters would be necessary if I sat by idly letting death sneak up on me with the weight I used to be by NOT having this surgery.
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Old 02-10-2008, 12:37 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i didnt write any letters, i just talked to everyone before my surgery. but it is a good idea.
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Old 02-10-2008, 02:21 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I didnt write any letters before surgery but I have wrote letters to people in my family about my feelings for them. Just be yourself in them that is the best, you can remenisce (sp?) about things that are special to you about them, point out some of the things about them that make your heart smile, just let them know these things that we usually keep to ourselves, but shouldnt!
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Old 02-10-2008, 03:59 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I haven't even told my dad of my intentions to get surgery until the cardiologist's ink dries and I have been cleared for surgery. Hub and kids know it is NOT to be discussed in front of Baba. I am an only child and he, being 75 and living in a retirement community, know a lot of people who have outlived their children, and he has mentioned that a lot lately. I am guessing he is subliminally saying that he does not want to outlive me.
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