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04-10-2008, 04:27 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,453
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |  divorce ok so some of you know about my marraige from posts in the past, well i finally told my hubby yesterday that i want a divorce and it was quite the day..anger, yelling, swearing then im sorry i will do whatever it takes...blah blah blah...i know i am at the point in my life where i want to start over but here is my problem..i have such a soft heart and have a very hard time with hurting anyone even if it means that i will be unhappy..i have come to terms with the fact that i am a caretaker. i have spent so many years making everyone els happy and staying in a marraige because of everyone els...i hope i can stay strong and not cave...i feel like it is hopeless!!!
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04-10-2008, 04:36 PM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North West, NJ
Posts: 1,077
Weight Statistics 1/14/2008 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 330 lb Start Weight:
258 lb Current Weight:
180 lb Goal Weight:
72 lb Weight Loss:
78 lb Lb Left to Lose:
21.8181818182 % % Lost:
Summer 09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 47.3448979592 BMI Start:
37.0151020408 BMI Current:
25.8244897959 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | You are in a tough position - no advice sweetheart, I don't know you or your life well enough - all I can say is be true to your heart. Major (((HUGS))) sent your way.
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04-10-2008, 04:51 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: North Dakota
Posts: 195
Weight Statistics September 21st Surgery Date:
5' 2" Height: 300 lb Start Weight:
222 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
78 lb Weight Loss:
72 lb Lb Left to Lose:
26 % % Lost:
whatever happens! Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 54.8647242456 BMI Start:
40.5998959417 BMI Current:
27.4323621228 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I am not sure what to say but know that we are all here for you and I will keep you in my thoughts!
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04-10-2008, 05:11 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Indianola, Iowa
Posts: 147
Weight Statistics May 5 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 307 lb Start Weight:
248 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
59 lb Weight Loss:
98 lb Lb Left to Lose:
19.2182410423 % % Lost:
June 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 49.5456841139 BMI Start:
40.0238751148 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I feel for you. I'm sort of in the same situation. I don't know if your a christian or not but my faith has gotten me through alot. I'm not for divorce but sometimes it's the only way when there's not change on both sides. Good luck. I'll be praying for you. 
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04-10-2008, 05:26 PM
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| WLS Guru  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Zealand
Posts: 452
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 10/27/07 Start Date:
11 March 08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 239 lb Start Weight:
156 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
83 lb Weight Loss:
16 lb Lb Left to Lose:
34.7280334728 % % Lost:
12/25/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.3323255228 BMI Start:
27.6311413454 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Quote:
 Take care and be true to your heart.
__________________ Leelee  Your Attitude determines Your Altitude   239lbs - lost 22lbs pre-op= 218lbs day of surgery.   | |
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04-10-2008, 05:42 PM
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Troy,ny
Posts: 909
Weight Statistics Since birth:) Start Date:
postponed until ? Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 319 lb Start Weight:
308 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
11 lb Weight Loss:
158 lb Lb Left to Lose:
3.44827586207 % % Lost:
sometime in 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.4823232323 BMI Start:
49.7070707071 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method - | Oh honey, I am sorry to here you are having a tough time. I don't know the situation between you and your husband to offer any specific advice. I can relate though because I am in a bad marriage myself. Some days I feel as if the world is caving in on me. Be strong, true to yourself and heart. If you believe in a higher being than by all means turn to HIM. He would never give us anything more than we can handle. ((((HUGS))))
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04-10-2008, 06:36 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: WADING RIVER (Long Island), NY
Posts: 4,835
Weight Statistics 7/16/07 Start Date:
7/16/07 Surgery Date:
4' 11" Height: 230 lb Start Weight:
139 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
91 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.5652173913 % % Lost:
12/31/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.4492961793 BMI Start:
28.0715311692 BMI Current:
23.2246480896 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | Oh Honey Im So Sorry To Hear Of Your Situation. But God You Sound So Much Like Me When It Comes To Being A Caretaker And Looking At Everyone Elses Needs But Your Own. BUT IM AM REALLY GETTING BETTER WITH THAT!!! Of Course I Dont Know The Whole Situation But All I Can Tell You Is Really Take Your Time And Think About Everything And Think About What Will Make You Happy Because This Is About You. We Only Live Once And If You Dont Make Yourself Happy In This Life You Will Never Get A Second Chance. Im Thinking About You And Will Pray For You!!!!!!! If You Ever Need A Friend Please Email Me. Hugs 
__________________ 3/2008 PREG. START WT 144LBS. GOAL WILL HAVE TO WAIT TILL AFTER BABY  230 lbs 7/2007 & 142 lbs 4/2008     |
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04-10-2008, 06:36 PM
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| Super Moderator  | ((((((HUGS))))))) Keep in mind, if you can't be happy with yourself and love yourself, you won't be able to make others truly happy, and have others love you truly. Also, if their Mom is unhappy, then it's going to affect the kids in one way or another. You also have a right to be happy. Tying marriage counseling is an option, if you are willing. That may enable both of you to see what the problems are, and either give you tools to correct them, or give you the final sprigboard to go your respective ways. If your husband makes you feel that maybe you should stay, then making that a condition might help, not that you'll stay, but make counseling a condition for you two to try to see if you can work things out. If your husband sees through counseling that it won't, then for one, you will know that you gave it a try, and for two, your husband will know that it won't work, and it's better for both of you, and your children to start differnt lives. ((((((((HUGS)))))))) I hope both you and your husband can make the happiness the respective you deserve.
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04-10-2008, 06:50 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 3,535
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 363 lb Start Weight:
211 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
152 lb Weight Loss:
46 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.8732782369 % % Lost:
12/31/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.0793877551 BMI Start:
30.2720408163 BMI Current:
23.6724489796 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | You have to make the right decison for yourself honey. Good luck with it all. |
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04-10-2008, 07:06 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,453
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | thanks for all the encouraging words..it is nice to know i can turn to everyone on this site when i am having a hard time....(((HUGS))) to all!!
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