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02-22-2009, 07:16 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Cheektowaga, New York
Posts: 452
Weight Statistics November7,2007 Start Date:
MARCH 11,2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
289 lb Start Weight:
171 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
118 lb Weight Loss:
-4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.830449827 % % Lost:
1 yr from surgery Goal Date:
Body Mass Index46.6407254362 BMI Start:
27.597107438 BMI Current:
28.2426538108 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
 |  Ode to friendships lost
Well this past saturday i lost a friend of 26 years . Some of you may remember about a month ago i posted about a friend of mine that told me she was in love with me . Well this past friday i went to her house and we were having a good time a bunch of us. Then all of a sudden her boyfriend started trippin out saying i have a crush on him or i wanted his girl . the whole thing was crazy .she wasn't in the house at the time it was me a mutual friend and her gay sister . Everything got blown out of portion because of her sister and her sister put me out of her house because i told her boyfriend if he has any questions about her sexuality he should talk to her not me and i don't have any feeling for him the whole thing was crazy i told her to call me the next day so we could fix this mess i haven't heard from her so i've decided to just let things stay the way they are and let this be the end of our friendship .
I never thought this whole weight lose thing would cause me most of my friends this is becoming quite depressing .who would of ever thunk it would be like this
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02-22-2009, 07:18 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NY
Posts: 10,172
Weight Statistics 4/19/2007 Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
260 lb Start Weight:
152 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
108 lb Weight Loss:
-13 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.5384615385 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index38.3910943079 BMI Start:
22.4440243646 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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awwwww  im sorry. been there. i lost a job too. you will find better friends though 
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02-22-2009, 11:52 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Zealand
Posts: 1,292
Weight Statistics 10/27/07 Start Date:
11 March 08 Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
239 lb Start Weight:
134 lb Current Weight:
144 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
-10 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.9330543933 % % Lost:
12/25/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index42.3323255228 BMI Start:
23.7344419249 BMI Current:
25.5056689342 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Jeez...that is awful!! what a horrid situation to be in.
My sage advice is to just sit back and leave it be. If she comes to you and apologises, then see how you feel, but for the time being, try to ride it out.
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02-23-2009, 04:02 AM
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Even though you feel depressed and bereft, it is them who have issues, not you.
The only thing you can do is to skirt a wide path around them if you can. They need to sort out their feelings first. You keep your chin up, head high, as you've done no wrong. At least one door, often more tha one, will open for the door that closed.
Take good care of *me* first.
(((((((HUGS)))))))
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02-23-2009, 08:02 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Davenport, IA
Posts: 1,848
Weight Statistics 12/28/06 Start Date:
May 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
253 lb Start Weight:
191 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
62 lb Weight Loss:
41 lb Lb Left to Lose:
24.5059288538 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index42.0968047337 BMI Start:
31.780591716 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Sorry to hear this, but Doc is right, it is their problem not yours. Hopefully she will come around but if she doesn't, be glad you won't have all the drama to deal with.
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02-23-2009, 08:12 AM
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Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Troy,ny
Posts: 2,799
Weight Statistics Since birth:) Start Date:
August 5, 2009 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
319 lb Start Weight:
189 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
130 lb Weight Loss:
39 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.7523510972 % % Lost:
sometime in 2010 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index51.4823232323 BMI Start:
30.5020661157 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I am sorry about your loss of friendship. You'll find friends who like you for you.
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02-23-2009, 09:56 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 4,019
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
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279 lb Start Weight:
186 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
93 lb Weight Loss:
11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.3333333333 % % Lost:
18 months Goal Date:
Body Mass Index45.0268595041 BMI Start:
30.0179063361 BMI Current:
28.2426538108 BMI Goal:
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I'm sorry for your problems. My advice is to ride it out. If she comes to you, then she cares about your friendship and realizes what's happened. If she doesn't, maybe she isn't the kind of friend you need anyways. Good luck. And be strong.
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