[LittleLisaMarie]

I know exactly what you are going through. I had to deal with these issues when i was heavy, i knew they would get worse when i took the weight off. I have alot of male friends, i tend to get along with men very well ....I have always been into the football and hockey and stuff like that so i usually make male friends faster then female...its always been that way. I just try to ignore him when he gets into his moods because i have learned as i have started to feel better about myself that he has to work on his own insecurities. I cant do anything other then re assure him that im not wandering...if he chooses to believe otherwise i cant do anything about it. I am feeling better about myself and yes i am dressing a little different but he has to deal with it. Im sorry you are going through this because i know how hard it is.....Talking about it helps alot....

LittleLisaMarie

[fr1endly2]

Rpbbin,
YEAH im gonna go to the holiday party but as for a new outfit
im just gonna wear the black dress i have on on my avatar picture.
MIGHT as well get another use out of it, i wore it to a friends sons
barmitvah last march.

[Robbin]

Lisa I am sure you will have a great time...and you will look very nice as your avitar picture shows...ROBBIN

[Pillows]

Lisa have fun at your party. I know I am wearing a fun little black number to my hubby's office party this year and I just went to help a friend pick out a cute black halter dress for her to wear to it too.
Janae

[pugmama]

thanks girls... like I said, we have our good days and our bad days but everyday the "weight" thing is brought up. If it was meant to be... it will work itself out... if not, then like LisaMarie said, what can I do about it right?! Oh well. It's nice to have you all to talk to and actually have someone understand "my side" of things. You guys are the best!

[Pillows]

Awww sweetie, I hope that either way you are able to do what is best for you and makes you happy. I know that it is hard when you are unsure of how things are on the rocks and the scales could tip either way. The worst part is that you can only control you and not your partner. Let me know if ya ever need to vent. Huge hug Stacie.
Janae

[NCPTGUY]

Good morning all and I'm so proud of all of you . God bless you all !!! Being a nationally ceritifed personal trainer we are trained to include the spouse or significant other. Why so he or she doesn't feel left out. Your going to workout but once in a while bring that love with you. So he or she can see the rosebud turn into a rose . He or she will then know what you are going thru physically but most importantly spiritually, mentally and emotionally. Just don't look at this person you go home to either, remember this is my friend . Friends have thoughts and feelings too. The working out together brings togetherness and God will blesss you for that . Have a good day .

[pugmama]

I work out almost everyday... I've offered to pay for him to join the gym or buy a home gym for the both of us... the most I can get out of him is a walk every once in awhile *sigh*

[Pillows]

I can relate honey. My hubby isn't really into it much and it is also hard to arrange with the kids, but I hope that other aspects improve for you soon.
janae

[FemmeMode]

So far.....I don't have to deal with any of this!!!
My hubby continues to google and be silly over my body and weight loss. One of the funniest things he does is walk behind me and put 'one finger' on my butt.....or reach around me and put one finger on my b**b! I just crack up!

I do...and am getting a lot more attention than I did before...but, Hubby is always studying or at work...so he doesn't see it. Anyway...
I wish I could join a gym with my hubby but it's just not practical for our "student finances"....and so....
I took Kat's lead and bought a tapping dvd and tap shoes....and look forward to that new exercise!!

I know everything will work out for you Pugmama...you are a beautiful woman...not only on the outside...and your husband is just getting used to all the changes. Sometimes I think that they didn't have the surgery...but they get a huge change in their life too!!