[armywife2aerial]

MY husband is being the bigest A$$ right know. well i was in the haspital he spent the nights and just slept. and now that i have been home sence saterday i have seen him a total of 4 hours if that. Yesterday night he was suposted spend the evaning with me he came to my moms and stayed long enough to eat a sancwich and left. He is being the bigest jerk on earth and i cant even stand it. but in his head he thinks he is just wonderfull.

when i was in the hopital he told me he did not get me anything because stuff was so expenceive in the gift shop (what the h&!! we both work full time jobs i think he can affored it ) but ok so then he procedes to tell me he was going to get me something from the mall but when he got there, there was so much hipe about the harry potter book that he forgot. stupped A$$ shows how important i am. Right

so life sucks Im just trying to get myself helthy and strong egen with very little support from him.

all i do know is i have learned my lesson and when he has his teeth pulled out in september i hope he get a dry socket and im going to be working over time and not be around to give him any support.pay backs a B

I look at it this way when i neeced him most he was not there so neather am I

This is the year for me and takeing care of ashley and what is good for ashley.

I have told him he has dug a hole that im not shore he will ever get out of and he seems not to care so neather do I

I am still staying at my parents and i will be for quite some time i think so i will keep you all posted from time to time on what new and going on

agen thank you all for being my frineds and supporting me when ever i need it

take care
ash

[Kenyar]

(((((((((((ASHLEY))))))))))))) it will get better i promise you. hang in there. for now just sip and rest. dont get aggrivated or upset. just sip sip sip....

[armywife2aerial]

thanks kenyar im trying It just has me so upset but. Im doing ok and my mom and dad and sister have been takeing good care of me.

[DocSanae]

Awwww, (((((((HUGS))))))

[rozzy345]

Sorry, your hubby is being that way but at least you have the right attitude! It is your time right now, Enjoy!

Roz

[A new me]

Ashely you have a good attitude. Right now you need to take care of you and whats best for you and your health. The good thing is you have the support of your parents and sister right now.

I know after the surgery my emotions were all over the place. Not that Im giving your husband an excuse for what he has put you thru with your emotions but there is alot to deal with both physicaly and emotionally after the surgery. So hang in there girl and try to relax and heal up.

[MsVickie]

I agree with Rozzy. Honey sometimes people just dont face stuff like this the way we think they should. You take care of you and dont worry about him.

[fr1endly2]

sorry your hubby is pissin you off!
BUT they do that!

HANG in there and i think you know what to do
when he has his teeth out in the fall!
hugs
and glad you had us to vent this stuff too!!!
it helps...

[UkJustice]

Mine is totally the same! Went out on Saturday night didnt come back until Sunday afternoon! I just think, keep hammering that nail into your coffin! All i think about is when get some more weight off i'll be out shaking my ass again! I already have an ex that keeps texting me. Once your weight comes off he wont be able to do enough for your in case you stray! and if he doesnt come into line by then trade him in i know i will be!

[myavt]

Ashley--

I'm so sorry that you have to feel this way RIGHT after your surgery! I wonder what your hubby could be thinking? You seem to have let him know you're not happy and he doesn't seem to feel like "getting the knack".

I'm so glad you're at your Mom's house. Maybe if you could pretend hubby doesn't exist, or that "all is well" for a few days, you could get a mental break and heal better. People don't heal well at all when they have stress hormones flooding the brain!

I had an emergency C-SECTION for my 2nd kid. When I came home, and let's say the house was none too clean, I could feel grit under my feet. I put the baby to bed and started sweeping the floor--crying--then I realized, "I don't have to suffer because HE'S a jerk!!!", went to my room w/the baby, shut the door and focused on ME!!!

Sometimes ya' gotta be selfish and make the mental energy around ya' GOOD, for YOU--you can always raise hell and express your displeasure later! You need TLC right now baby!

XOXO
Mya