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08-23-2007, 08:18 AM
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#1 (permalink)
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Since sugery has anybody had problems in the sex field?
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08-23-2007, 08:23 AM
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#2 (permalink)
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Join Date: May 2007 Location: Upstate NY
Posts: 3,239
Weight Statistics April 11th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
267 lb Start Weight:
142 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
125 lb Weight Loss:
-8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.8164794007 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index45.8254394531 BMI Start:
24.3715820312 BMI Current:
25.7446289062 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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What kind of problems??? I have been fine.
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08-23-2007, 08:25 AM
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#3 (permalink)
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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since surgery not really interested it is ruining my marriage.
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08-23-2007, 08:28 AM
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#4 (permalink)
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Join Date: Aug 2007
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Good morning,
I need to know an answer to a personal question. Since sugery has anyone had problems in the you know what area with your spouses or boyfriends?
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08-23-2007, 09:49 AM
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#5 (permalink)
| | WLS Mentor
Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Tega Cay, SC
Posts: 1,014
Weight Statistics August 2, 2007 Start Date:
August 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
283 lb Start Weight:
162 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
121 lb Weight Loss:
2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.7561837456 % % Lost:
Christmas, 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index44.3192247717 BMI Start:
25.3700155937 BMI Current:
25.0568055246 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Well, we've decided not to try until I have at least my two week check up with my surgeon and he gives the okay. Wouldn't want something coming loose in there! LOL
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08-23-2007, 09:50 AM
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#6 (permalink)
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Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: SOMEPLACE LONG ISLAND, NY
Posts: 6,809
Weight Statistics June 1, 2005 Start Date:
5' 5"
Height:
310 lb Start Weight:
167 lb Current Weight:
159 lb Goal Weight:
143 lb Weight Loss:
8 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.1290322581 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index51.5810650888 BMI Start:
27.7872189349 BMI Current:
26.4560946746 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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well sometimes this journey does bring issues to the relationship.
MANY of our partners feel insecure some post op and feel
were doing this to leave them.
SO it brings on new emotions.
I am sure this phase isnt gonna last for long
not sure when you had surgery...but i believe
most surgeons say no relations for a bit
while healing
hope all goes well
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08-23-2007, 10:07 AM
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#7 (permalink)
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Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Cuero, South Texas
Posts: 529
Weight Statistics May 1, 2007 Start Date:
June 25, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
280 lb Start Weight:
167 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
113 lb Weight Loss:
37 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.3571428571 % % Lost:
December 25, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index48.056640625 BMI Start:
28.6623535156 BMI Current:
22.3120117188 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I waited 3 weeks and then it was not wild or crazy stuff. LOL. My husband is so supportive. We discussed it before surgery and he had some concerns but I believe I have calmed them. Of course we are in our late 50's not young 'uns, but this a second marriage for both of us ( 4 yrs ) after each being married , him 30 yrs and me 28 yrs ,before. I am sure the more I lose the more reassuing I will have to be. AND the biggie is you will feel sexier the more you lose. So in my case I will use that as a gift to my husband and make him know it is only for him. If someone flirts with me I will go home and make him proud that I am his. Sound silly? I hope not. Keep communicating and growing together. If you have doubts he will surely have doubts. Mattie
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08-23-2007, 11:03 AM
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#8 (permalink)
| | WLS Master Guru
Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Louisiana
Posts: 899
Weight Statistics 4/23/07 Surgery Date:
Height:
385 lb Start Weight:
257 lb Current Weight:
190 lb Goal Weight:
128 lb Weight Loss:
67 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.2467532468 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index62 BMI Start:
41 BMI Current:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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No problems once I started again but it was about a month before I felt like doing anything. It will pass.
Roz
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08-23-2007, 01:53 PM
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#9 (permalink)
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 5,162
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
151 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
136 lb Weight Loss:
11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.3867595819 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.8342151675 BMI Start:
26.7455278408 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I still have 4 more weeks before I can head in that direction and my husband is absolutely wonderful about it. It is kind of scary to think that with all of the changes that you go through, this may be another one.
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08-24-2007, 02:07 AM
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#10 (permalink)
| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Smiths Station Alabama
Posts: 4,363
Weight Statistics 07/23/2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
230 lb Start Weight:
130 lb Current Weight:
125 lb Goal Weight:
100 lb Weight Loss:
5 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.4782608696 % % Lost:
June 23 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index42.0629552549 BMI Start:
23.7747138398 BMI Current:
22.860301769 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I dont really want sex either but I had to force myself last weekend because he was leaving for 2 months. I am hoping that when I lose more weight I will want it more
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