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09-14-2007, 06:40 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Tega Cay, SC
Posts: 817
Weight Statistics August 2, 2007 Start Date:
August 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 283 lb Start Weight:
176 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
107 lb Weight Loss:
26 lb Lb Left to Lose:
37.8091872792 % % Lost:
Christmas, 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 44.3192247717 BMI Start:
27.5624860771 BMI Current:
23.4907551793 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |  Teenagers My husband's father passed away and so my husband left today to go be with his mother for a few days. Well, that means that I get full time parent duty (which I normally don't have since my husband is the stay at home parent). Anyway, so picked up both my kids and their friends from school and bused everyone home. My son was going to spend the night at his friend's house, but I had left his sleeping bag and pillow at home and the birthday card (it was his friends birthday). So I tell him we have to run home to get that stuff and I have a few work things to finish up and then I'll run him back. So about an hour later we head out -- he's in one of his "moods" -- well all of a sudden it just spins out of control and we're having this huge fight and he's saying all sorts of awful things to me  (you know the "I hate you" "You never loved me" "You're an awful parent" etc...) Of course, at first I'm mad right back  and I'm not letting him get out of the car and telling him he won't be going to his friend's house, yadayadayada -- all of a sudden I get ahold of myself and like what the heck??? Anyway he finally calmed down and apologized and we talked and it's all okay again -- but I'm like drained! Geeez!! Boys can be just as emotional as girls!! And teenagers -- I'm just not a good parent with teens -- too illogical and irrational!!  I know this is just payback for what I did to my parents as a teen! Give me little kids and I'm real good with young adults -- but teens -- AHHHHH! I'm just at a loss! |
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09-14-2007, 06:45 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 6,860
Weight Statistics 4/1/07 Start Date:
4/19/07 Surgery Date:
5' 9" Height: 258 lb Start Weight:
136 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
122 lb Weight Loss:
-4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.2868217054 % % Lost:
04/19/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 38.0957781979 BMI Start:
20.0814954841 BMI Current:
20.6721277043 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass   | wow. i dont know what to say. im sorry  mine is a little one with a mouth the size of a big one LOL. i guess i'll be where you are in a few years yet!
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09-14-2007, 06:49 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: WADING RIVER (Long Island), NY
Posts: 4,754
Weight Statistics 7/16/07 Start Date:
7/16/07 Surgery Date:
4' 11" Height: 230 lb Start Weight:
137 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
93 lb Weight Loss:
22 lb Lb Left to Lose:
40.4347826087 % % Lost:
12/31/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.4492961793 BMI Start:
27.6676242459 BMI Current:
23.2246480896 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | Same With Me Mine Daughter Is Not Even Close To That Stage Yet.
__________________ 3/2008 PREG. START WT 144LBS. GOAL WILL HAVE TO WAIT TILL AFTER BABY  230 lbs 7/2007 & 142 lbs 4/2008     |
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09-14-2007, 06:58 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Greenville,NC
Posts: 124
Weight Statistics 02/17/2007 Start Date:
08/08/07 Surgery Date:
Height: 388 lb Start Weight:
319 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
69 lb Weight Loss:
159 lb Lb Left to Lose:
17.7835051546 % % Lost:
Sept 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0 BMI Start:
48.5 BMI Current:
24.3 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I'll trade you... my boy is 10 and my girl is 6.  Ha Ha Ha Just kidding. You did great!! When he starts with the whole I hate you say something to the effect of "You have a right to your feelings but remember no matter what I will always love you." This shuts mine right down. When I was in that stage my mom would say that and it helped. I never wanted to disappoint her because I knew she loved me no matter what. Also, remember that he also has had a loss and will go through the grieving stages. Allow that. Sorry for your loss and good luck with the teens.
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09-14-2007, 08:01 PM
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| Guru In Training  Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Phila, PA
Posts: 272
Weight Statistics 6/15/07 - Lost 30bls prior to surgery Start Date:
Sept. 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 4" Height: 314 lb Start Weight:
212 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
102 lb Weight Loss:
67 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.4840764331 % % Lost:
Spring of 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 53.8920898438 BMI Start:
36.3857421875 BMI Current:
24.8864746094 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Jill I have a 19 year old girl(drama queen) but a great kid. And a 21 year old boy (OMG) It talks all of may will power and the grace of almight God for me to get through to him some times. I totally understand where your comming from. I truly believe that my sole and most important purpose is to be the best mother I can be to my children, I give it my best try ever day sometimes I succeed sometimes it's hell. But you know what I would not trade my role for anything in the world. Hang in there, this too shall pass.
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09-14-2007, 08:15 PM
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| WLS Guru  Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Southwest Virginia
Posts: 473
Weight Statistics June 12, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 330 lb Start Weight:
213 lb Current Weight:
180 lb Goal Weight:
117 lb Weight Loss:
33 lb Lb Left to Lose:
35.4545454545 % % Lost:
December, 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 54.9088757396 BMI Start:
35.441183432 BMI Current:
29.950295858 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | As a high school teacher, who deals with 125 or more students on a daily basis, I totally agree with the rshel. I love working with them! I really do! They have so much on their plates, they really do. And they totally do not get adults at all. But just like you said, Jill, one day they will be paid back for what they say and do when they have children. Keep that hope/wish in your heart. LOL!
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09-14-2007, 11:09 PM
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| WLS Mentor Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 1,445
Blog Entries: 7 Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 271 lb Start Weight:
157 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
114 lb Weight Loss:
12 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.0664206642 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 43.7357667585 BMI Start:
25.3376951331 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I remember one of my friends told me her pediatrician told her at her daughters 13 yo ck up "get in, sit down, buckle up, and hold on tight" for the next 5+ years. Seems appropriate. To me, the blessing of a teen is just watching them become who they will be (sometimes that's a tad scary too) Just remember - this too shall pass. Im sure you're doing a great job as a mom, dont be so hard on yourself.
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09-14-2007, 11:45 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 3,026
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 363 lb Start Weight:
221 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
142 lb Weight Loss:
56 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.1184573003 % % Lost:
12/31/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.0793877551 BMI Start:
31.7067346939 BMI Current:
23.6724489796 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Next 5 YEARS!! Make that when they hit about 16 to 21. I think all kids should leave home when there 16 and come back for a visit when there 21. LOL Im joking but man it would be sooooooooo nice. Jill honey, I know your pain. I have been there did that cryed so many tears and then ......its ok. This is what Grey hair comes from honey. Im a true beliver in that one. Yes they have alot on there plates,,,,,,,and I do understand that. But its still no reason for them to speak to you in a different manner than they were raised. And trust me when they appoligse there doing it to get off fast. LOL I was 18 before I tryed my parents. I was to scared of my Dad not to. Get this one........ My son told me about 3 months ago I wasnt hard enough on him when he turned 15 and up???????? So brace your self honey for the next few years. Mine is just now starting to act like he has some sense. Yall are gonna get me for this one but... you dont have to like your kid. You will always love them but you dont have to like them at dfferent parts in there lives. They dont like us much either until they grow up. LOL |
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09-15-2007, 03:14 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 2,971
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2" Height: 287 lb Start Weight:
182 lb Current Weight:
135 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
47 lb Lb Left to Lose:
36.5853658537 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.4872528616 BMI Start:
33.2845993757 BMI Current:
24.6891259105 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | It doesnt take long before they get into the I hate you and you hate me stage! It took us throwing our oldest out before she shaped up! She came back to abide by OUR rules and decided it was time for her to get out on her own at 19. She is now 20 and calls every other day just to talk. I have a Godson that is 9 and my best friend constantly tells me that he is mine once he gets the teen on the end of his age! We are moving with no forwarding address!!! LOLOL. I dont think that I ever want to go through another teen phase!! 2 was more than enough for me! LOLOL Grandkids will be different, spoil the heck out of them and send them packing back to mom and dad! But unfortunately our girl believes that it is one person per body and doesnt think she ever wants to have kids (which is good for now!) |
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09-16-2007, 01:38 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Hawaii
Posts: 2,957
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 07/23/2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2" Height: 230 lb Start Weight:
125 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
10 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.652173913 % % Lost:
June 23 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.0629552549 BMI Start:
22.860301769 BMI Current:
21.0314776275 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I feel for you, I dont have teens yet but my daughter is 11 and my middle one is 10 he is a drama king sometimes. I dont get the I HATE you part yet but his sister gets it plenty. I feel for you I really do |
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