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Old 01-17-2008, 05:13 PM   #1 (permalink)
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nov.7.2007
Start Date:
MARCH 11,2008
Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
289 lb
Start Weight:
217 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
72 lb
Weight Loss:
67 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
24.9134948097 %
% Lost:
1 yr from surgery
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
46.6407254362
BMI Start:
35.0208907254
BMI Current:
24.2079889807
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Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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WHY DO SOME PEOPLE THINK THIS IS THE EASY WAY OUT . YOU SHOULD JUST US WILLPOWER . I JUST HAD THE BIGGEST BLOW UP WITH A FRIEND AT WORK SHE IS SUCH AN AIR HEAD SOMETIME SHE DOESN'T EVEN REMEMBER ME TELLING HER ABOUT MY DECISION TO HAVE THE SURGERY SEVERAL TIMES SINCE AUGUST AND ONE OF THE NURSE PRACTIONERS HAD TO STEP IN AND TELL HER THAT IT IS NOT THE EASY WAY OUT SHE JUST MADE ME SO ANGRY WITH HER AND I HAD TO VENT TO SOMEONE . I HAD TO BIT MY TONGUE WITH HER BEFORE I READ HER WEAKINESSES TO HER WHICH ARE FAR WORSE . WHY ARE SOME PEOPLE LIKE THAT? AND DID I MENTION THAT SHE SAID THAT ALL BYPASS PEOPLE LOOK SICK AFTERWARD ARE YOU KIDDING ME I'VE SEEN SOME PEOPLE LOOK GREAT HERE AND IN PERSON
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Old 01-17-2008, 05:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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07/23/2007
Start Date:
July 23, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
230 lb
Start Weight:
125 lb
Current Weight:
115 lb
Goal Weight:
105 lb
Weight Loss:
10 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
45.652173913 %
% Lost:
June 23 2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
42.0629552549
BMI Start:
22.860301769
BMI Current:
21.0314776275
BMI Goal:

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Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Honey I hear you, my sister who I thought was supportive made s slip the other day and it totaly hurt my feelings and angerd me all at the same time. My sisters girlfriend is doing weight watchers and has lost about 50 pounds so far, well they are coming to see me in March and her girlfriend made the comment that she couldnt come here to Hawaii and be bigger then me and my sister said to her "Well you are doing it the natural way and my sister had surgery so its easier for her" I couldnt believe my sister told me this, I was shocked and hurt and angry all at the same time. Why do people think this is easy?
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Old 01-17-2008, 05:29 PM   #3 (permalink)
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2 Nov 06
Start Date:
2 Nov 06
Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
258 lb
Start Weight:
128 lb
Current Weight:
140 lb
Goal Weight:
130 lb
Weight Loss:
-12 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
50.3875968992 %
% Lost:
Nov. 2007
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
44.2807617188
BMI Start:
21.96875
BMI Current:
24.0283203125
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Poopoo... I know what you mean. People can be sooooo insensitive. In realality, the surgery is probably the hardest thing to do. People just don't realize it. Our changes are permanent changes(Gastric). It's not only physical changes it's mental changes too. If gastric bypass is the way we decide to go, then that is a huge step in our lives as a oppose to just dieting where you can decide to stop. With surgery(gastric) it's a done deal. So to me by far it's definitely not the "easy way out". People who say that NEED to be enlightened, errrrggggg!!! There also might be some jealousy in that statement as well. Some people can't stand it we decide to do something to better ourselves. Who knows!!!!!

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Old 01-17-2008, 06:20 PM   #4 (permalink)
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8 years old....
Start Date:
April 3, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
314 lb
Start Weight:
166 lb
Current Weight:
130 lb
Goal Weight:
148 lb
Weight Loss:
36 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
47.1337579618 %
% Lost:
April 2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
57.4250780437
BMI Start:
30.3584807492
BMI Current:
23.7747138398
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Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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It took me 3 years to decide to have this surgery - I struggles so much the I was a failure if I couldn't do it w/o surgery. But you know something - yeah the weight comes of quicker in most cases, but we all have to deal with the same things that others do - why we eat, what we eat, etc. And what makes anyone an expert on what I believe is right for me? Were they there enouuraging me through the successes and failures? Did they feel like they were so out of control that the mountain was to big to tackle? 10 lbs with "diets" wasn't even a drop in the bucket? I could go on. You did a brace and noble thing - you took control of your life and decided to LIVE. No one can live for you! Keep being strong and we are here for you as well!

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Old 01-17-2008, 06:28 PM   #5 (permalink)
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9-25-07
Start Date:
9-25-07
Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
344 lb
Start Weight:
225 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
119 lb
Weight Loss:
65 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
34.5930232558 %
% Lost:
1-09
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
55.5169880624
BMI Start:
36.3119834711
BMI Current:
25.8218549128
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I can understand you completely.I don't think it's even worth trying to make them get it because they already have their minds made up.Sometimes I just want to punch people but I tell myself to consider the source.I can't wait till you can put your sickly small self in her face!!!!
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Old 01-17-2008, 06:40 PM   #6 (permalink)
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4/1/07
Start Date:
4/19/07
Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
258 lb
Start Weight:
136 lb
Current Weight:
140 lb
Goal Weight:
122 lb
Weight Loss:
-4 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
47.2868217054 %
% Lost:
04/19/2008
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
38.0957781979
BMI Start:
20.0814954841
BMI Current:
20.6721277043
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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if they dont get it leave it be and go on with what you have to do. people like that and their negativity will mess you up. dont let it. stay focussed on what you need to do to get to where you want to be. you cant to the right place to vent. now breathe!! and hol dyour chin up and move on. there will be a lot more of that coming your way should you choose to tell people about this. shake it off!
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Old 01-17-2008, 08:08 PM   #7 (permalink)
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12-19-07
Start Date:
1-29-08
Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
286 lb
Start Weight:
199 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
87 lb
Weight Loss:
49 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
30.4195804196 %
% Lost:
eventually
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
50.6570924666
BMI Start:
35.2474174855
BMI Current:
26.5684051398
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EASY!!???!! I haven't even had surgery yet and this medifast for 4 1/2 weeks thing is NOT easy! No food, no chewing, no taste other than yucky chocolate (I gave up the vanilla). Dr. appt after Dr. appt, stress, food everywhere!!! I don't know why people are so ignorant (I have heard the 'everyone looks sick' thing too). But I have had LOTS of people at work say that they couldn't do what I'm doing (no food) and they are proud of me. But I've also heard - if this works, you won't have to have surgery. Yeah, 450 cals a day with real food on my current stomach? I don't think so!
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Old 01-17-2008, 08:20 PM   #8 (permalink)
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07/25/07
Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
288 lb
Start Weight:
201 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
87 lb
Weight Loss:
41 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
30.2083333333 %
% Lost:
08/2007
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
43.785467128
BMI Start:
30.5586072664
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24.3252595156
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Some people are just ignorant. This has been ine of the hardest things I have ever done. I don't even bother to try and educate these kind of people. It wasn't easy to earn the $35000 cash I put out for this surgery and it hasn't been easy adjusting my lifestyle either. I don't even bother to tell most people that I had surgery. Wgen they ask how I lost so much weight, I am honest and tell them a high protein, low sugar diet with lots of water and exercise. I don't bother to mention the scalpel. It is none of their business. Why is it that everyone always asks how you lost it?? Hard work. period!~
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Old 01-17-2008, 08:31 PM   #9 (permalink)
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july 21, 2007
Start Date:
august 17, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
339 lb
Start Weight:
192 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
147 lb
Weight Loss:
32 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
43.3628318584 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
54.7100550964
BMI Start:
30.9862258953
BMI Current:
25.8218549128
BMI Goal:

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there are lots of ppl out there that think that and i have come across a few, what do they know? have they been there? NOPE!! so hold your head up it is a life changing experience!
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Old 01-17-2008, 10:16 PM   #10 (permalink)
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A lot of people will hear/listen to only what they want to hear. The (only) thing to do when you run into these people is to shake it off and walk away. You'll waste your breath trying to explain, and it will hurt you more because they won't make the effort to listen and understand. Leave them be for now. If you need to, you can get back to them later, when you have the time and strength to spare. Right now, just concentrate on prepping yourself for surgery.
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