[beebo51]

Just one word in defense of your friend--I don't know who told you what she said about you, but you might question the motives of that person, too. We've all had friends who for one reason or another have tried to undermine us every time we attempted to lose weight before, so why not now when you've had WLS? Try to remember that this woman was your friend once, and may just be dealing with her own insecurities or problems--is she overweight and maybe afraid to try WLS? Or does she have other issues in her life that are keeping her from being happy that you've finally taken a big step towards losing weight. I'm not saying you have to try to figure out what's wrong--just give the friendship some space, and she may come around later. Try not to hold a grudge. Life is too short. AND by the way, congrats on the surgery and your progress so far. You're gonna do great!