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01-27-2008, 12:25 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Northwest Chicago Area. Sweet home Chicago
Posts: 118
Blog Entries: 6 Weight Statistics October 22, 2007 Start Date:
October 18, 2007 Surgery Date:
6' 2" Height: 313 lb Start Weight:
238 lb Current Weight:
190 lb Goal Weight:
75 lb Weight Loss:
48 lb Lb Left to Lose:
23.9616613419 % % Lost:
April 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 40.1824324324 BMI Start:
30.5540540541 BMI Current:
24.3918918919 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |  Experts Talking (Amateurs) think twice before you tell Yesterday night, I got a Lecture from someone from my family who I thought I could share my secret (my operation). Besides my father, brothers and sisters (yes big family) wife and my girls I thought well this family member is mature he will understand he will see my need. Are you kidding... I got the lecture, I got the speech (your mother never would have approved (mom past away 8 years ago). Anyway after that I realized why I have kept this a secret and not to tell. I felt at first bad because I was not understood but then realized that as a 38 year old man it was my desicion and I am happy with it. but just wanted to share my experience, about trying to share my happiness with others, they might simply not agree on your desicion very well. so I wonder has anyone had this experience like I have.
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01-27-2008, 01:25 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: N.Y.
Posts: 700
Weight Statistics June 25,2007 Start Date:
June 25,2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 322 lb Start Weight:
204 lb Current Weight:
152 lb Goal Weight:
118 lb Weight Loss:
52 lb Lb Left to Lose:
36.6459627329 % % Lost:
07/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.4268211183 BMI Start:
31.9474270439 BMI Current:
23.8039652484 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass   | Hang in there,most people do not know what to say, if they cant be supportive. I,fortunately have had a good luck story with the people i have told so.... I guess I dont know the "feeling"of such lectures,but I do feel that if they do not know what they r talking about they prob. shouldnt talk. Kathy
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01-27-2008, 02:11 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Hawaii
Posts: 2,957
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 07/23/2007 Start Date:
July 23, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 2" Height: 230 lb Start Weight:
125 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
105 lb Weight Loss:
10 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.652173913 % % Lost:
June 23 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.0629552549 BMI Start:
22.860301769 BMI Current:
21.0314776275 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Luckily I havent had that happen. I have read on here many people who have had similar experences |
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01-27-2008, 03:22 PM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hudson Falls, NY
Posts: 1,313
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Start Date:
1-29-08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 286 lb Start Weight:
199 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
87 lb Weight Loss:
49 lb Lb Left to Lose:
30.4195804196 % % Lost:
eventually Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.6570924666 BMI Start:
35.2474174855 BMI Current:
26.5684051398 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I don't know what it is that people think they have the right to judge anyone and make them feel bad. They are not in your shoes and they don't know how hard you've worked. I think people just like making other people feel bad and those are the people you should avoid. My 'secret' got out unvoluntarily and now i just talk about it like I talk about the weather and so far I've been lucky enough to get nothing but well wishes. Or at least the people with negative comments have the desency to keep their 2 cents to themselves. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience sharing this information, but all that matters is that you know you did the right thing.
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01-27-2008, 03:37 PM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: coarsegold california
Posts: 1,276
Weight Statistics 8/23/07 Start Date:
8/22/07 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 315 lb Start Weight:
211 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
104 lb Weight Loss:
41 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.0158730159 % % Lost:
I have no idea Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 49.3305858766 BMI Start:
33.0436622856 BMI Current:
26.6228558699 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Yes, i had my Doctor give me the guilt trip, that was 6 years ago and I went on the gain more and more weight every year. I finally went to him again last year BUT PREPARED, I had done research, attended the seminar and was ready for him to shoot me down again, but to my surprise, he didnt!! I figure he "tests" his patients when they come to him about this issue, and if they are serious, they have already done their homework prior. He referred me for the surgery with flying colors and I had it!! With people who are mis-informed or un-informed we just have to be informed ourselves and they wont get us down because we will know better!
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01-27-2008, 06:26 PM
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| WLS Mentor Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 1,445
Blog Entries: 7 Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 271 lb Start Weight:
157 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
114 lb Weight Loss:
12 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.0664206642 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 43.7357667585 BMI Start:
25.3376951331 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Education seems to help. I had one friend that was taken aback, as they say. She had a hard time accepting the whole thing, but did support me and was a huge cheerleader post op. (She dedicated herself to being my walking buddy for the first 3-4 months even though she didnt need to necessarily). Ya never know what you're gonna get! My least fav response was a lady at work who was sure I was gonna die or be mamed for life, etc. "Please step away from the....... "
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01-29-2008, 10:00 AM
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| Big Loser Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Michigan
Posts: 179
Weight Statistics January 8, 2008 Start Date:
February 21, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 253 lb Start Weight:
187 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
66 lb Weight Loss:
42 lb Lb Left to Lose:
26.0869565217 % % Lost:
April, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 40.8308080808 BMI Start:
30.1792929293 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | This keeps happening to me as well. I am your age and feel that no other person has the right to lecture me on my choices with my own health. After the surgery, when asked how I am loosing so much weight, I'm going to say " under a doctors care" and leave it at that. I now understand why Star Jones did not want to come clean about the surgery, I never understood until now. I always thought "why wouldn't I tell, who cares" well, when all you hear are negative things about your decisions!! take care Tami
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01-29-2008, 10:16 AM
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| WLS Guru  Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: AZ
Posts: 489
Weight Statistics January 1, 2008 Start Date:
January 11, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
259 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
80 lb Weight Loss:
94 lb Lb Left to Lose:
23.598820059 % % Lost:
July 4, 2009 FIREWORKS, BABY! Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 53.0891067053 BMI Start:
40.560703943 BMI Current:
25.8398306973 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | I am so sorry to hear that. I am a lot like you and have only told close family and my 2 best friends. However, I ended up getting the lecture from one of my best friends. I think it is bound to happen- now I am keeping my mouth shut and at 3 weeks post op people are already noticing I am losing weight and they can assume all they want........I don't want any more lectures by sharing!
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01-29-2008, 03:22 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 2,646
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
147 lb Weight Loss:
32 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.3628318584 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
30.9862258953 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | there are always ppl out there who have something negative to say about everything. i think all of us have been thru this at some time. these ppl seem to overlook the fact that you are taking control of your life and your health. i have had some negative ppl but i just do not care, if they are not there to support me and my decision, then i dont need them. you have done a wonderful thing for you so dont regret your adult decision because someone els dosnt agree, take care!
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01-29-2008, 03:28 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Campbell River, BC
Posts: 147
Weight Statistics December 4 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 7" Height: 308 lb Start Weight:
211 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
97 lb Weight Loss:
46 lb Lb Left to Lose:
31.4935064935 % % Lost:
May 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 48.2343506349 BMI Start:
33.0436622856 BMI Current:
25.8398306973 BMI Goal:
| I told very few people about my surgery - only the ones I love and the ones I know love me back and support me. Even though I was cautious, my mom broke my trust. She did not lecture me but she told other about my surgery, some whom I would never want to know. Anyways, I have lost all respect for my mother (I have a lifetime of being let down by her due to her big mouth). Our relationship will never be the same. I am not angry I am hurt and although I am still very pleasant I will NEVER tell my mother anything I do not want broadcasted ever again.
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