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01-30-2008, 10:30 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: upstate ny
Posts: 804
Weight Statistics 1/10/08, the final endeavor, I WILL SUCCEED!!! Start Date:
3/12/08 Surgery Date:
5' 4" Height: 298 lb Start Weight:
222 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
76 lb Weight Loss:
82 lb Lb Left to Lose:
25.5033557047 % % Lost:
7/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.1459960938 BMI Start:
38.1020507812 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |  Help!! I need some advice here!!  I'm about to have the surgery in March & have told my immediate family members. I've asked them not to tell people cause I prefer keeping it quiet since I don't live in my hometown anymore.....so far, so good with responds to this surgery..  Anyhow, to the BIG question: I have a cousin whom I've always been very close to, she's more like my sister..  The problem is that she's a MOTORMOUTH  & I know she won't be able to keep the "secret".... I don't want to hurt her feelings by not telling her,  but I also don't want my entire hometown to know about this!! What do I do?? Tell her or not?????  LOL, |
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01-30-2008, 10:34 AM
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| WLS Mentor Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 1,445
Blog Entries: 7 Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 271 lb Start Weight:
157 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
114 lb Weight Loss:
12 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.0664206642 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 43.7357667585 BMI Start:
25.3376951331 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | If you're more comfortable not having the info out there, or if it will cause you discomfort if she talks, dont share it yet. When the time is right, you'll know. Later you can tell her that you just werent ready to share it yet, hopefully she'll understand.
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01-30-2008, 01:47 PM
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Troy,ny
Posts: 653
Weight Statistics Since birth:) Start Date:
postponed until ? Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 319 lb Start Weight:
308 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
11 lb Weight Loss:
158 lb Lb Left to Lose:
3.44827586207 % % Lost:
sometime in 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.4823232323 BMI Start:
49.7070707071 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method - | Amina, Now lets see if this time I can help you instead of you me  I wouldn't tell her right now. If you feel more comfortable later on closer to your surgery date or even after the surgery occurs then I would tell her. If you guys are as close as you say, hopefully she'll understand your reasoning behind not telling her earlier on. Of course she might be hurt and upset for a while but that is to be expected. May salat el istikhara after you pray salat Aishat. This will help you make your decision.Love, Esha
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01-31-2008, 11:06 AM
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: upstate ny
Posts: 804
Weight Statistics 1/10/08, the final endeavor, I WILL SUCCEED!!! Start Date:
3/12/08 Surgery Date:
5' 4" Height: 298 lb Start Weight:
222 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
76 lb Weight Loss:
82 lb Lb Left to Lose:
25.5033557047 % % Lost:
7/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.1459960938 BMI Start:
38.1020507812 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | thanks for the help... i guess time will tell when & if i tell her..  LOL, |
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02-01-2008, 11:03 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 2,646
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
147 lb Weight Loss:
32 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.3628318584 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
30.9862258953 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | i agree if you dont want everyone to know i wouldnt tell her just yet, like said b4 you will know when the time is right and you feel comfortable with it, congrats on your upcomming date, how exciting!!
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02-03-2008, 11:46 PM
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| Guru In Training  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: BIG JER COUNTRY Ont , Canada
Posts: 240
Weight Statistics June 13 2007 Start Date:
January , 10, 2008 Surgery Date:
6' 5" Height: 448 lb Start Weight:
300 lb Current Weight:
210 lb Goal Weight:
148 lb Weight Loss:
90 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.0357142857 % % Lost:
As soon as possible ! Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 53.119244392 BMI Start:
35.5709225839 BMI Current:
24.8996458087 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Oh what the hell...why worry about it ? Is it that you dont want to tell her ...because you were saying shes got a big mouth ...or R U scared its going to spoil the surprise factor....the first time they see you look ? As you already no its up to you but I didnt and still dont care who knows about the fact that I had surgery done ! I didnt need the extra stress of trying to keep it secret. Plus the fact I didnt do this because of my appearance I did it for my health ! People dont understand that then its there problem...not yours ! I wish you luck with your surgery Amina ...and dont worry so much ... Its your life...right ? Jerry
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02-04-2008, 12:46 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Oklahoma City, Okla USA
Posts: 740
Blog Entries: 43 Weight Statistics 05/17/02 Start Date:
05/17/02 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 355 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
163 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.9154929577 % % Lost:
may 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0686390533 BMI Start:
31.9469822485 BMI Current:
29.1183431953 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass   | LOL jerry...after all this time (5.5) years I really am kind of to that point with it too...it's not plastic surgery and people do eventually figure it out! Star Jones is a perfect example. But everyone does have the right to their privacy...but hey small town alternative like I went through in ours..."I hear she's doing meth"...church elder aside....nice to know people love tearing ya down no matter what.. Sometimes it's better to just tell who it's important to tell and screw the rest of 'em. If it's someone you don't see but every so often..then don't tell 'em.
__________________ --BREE open RNY 5/17/2002 -166 lbs(-200 at lowest) Everything & Anything is possible with Belief in place....WLS changes LIVES  |
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02-04-2008, 05:55 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 2,689
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 280 lb Start Weight:
155 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
125 lb Weight Loss:
5 lb Lb Left to Lose:
44.6428571429 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5692041522 BMI Start:
23.5650951557 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | this surgery is funny......at first, you don't want to tell....like you've failed or people will think you are taking the easy way out.....AFTER you have the surgery, and you start to lose, it's like you do a 180 and tell EVERYONE...not only how much you weighed before, but EXACTLY how much you've lost. It was on the list of "you know you've had WLS if...." about how you wouldn't mention your weight before, but now, you are more than happy to tell any & everyone...and even post it on the internet!!! |
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02-04-2008, 07:02 AM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Kitchener, ON Canada
Posts: 128
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics Oct 16/2007 Surgery Date:
5' 9" Height: 317 lb Start Weight:
216 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
101 lb Weight Loss:
51 lb Lb Left to Lose:
31.8611987382 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 46.8076034447 BMI Start:
31.8941398866 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | From what I hear you will EVENTUALLY want to tell others about the amazing surgery you had. So when that point and time comes - then tell her - cause you wont mind that the rest of the world knows.
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02-09-2008, 11:20 AM
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| WLS Master Guru Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: upstate ny
Posts: 804
Weight Statistics 1/10/08, the final endeavor, I WILL SUCCEED!!! Start Date:
3/12/08 Surgery Date:
5' 4" Height: 298 lb Start Weight:
222 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
76 lb Weight Loss:
82 lb Lb Left to Lose:
25.5033557047 % % Lost:
7/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.1459960938 BMI Start:
38.1020507812 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | You Know, Jerry, I've Thought Long & Hard About This. Cause I Am Losing Now With This Medifast & Everyone Around Me Is Inquiring How I'm Doing It. Since I'm Not One To Tell A Lie, I Tell Them. What Will Be The Reaaalllll Kicker Is After The Surgery. Since I Work As An Lpn, Many Of The Other Nurses Will Catch On Quick That I'm No Longer Doing The Medifast & Now Eating Extremely Small Amounts Of Food. I Know How People Are Very Judgemental & I Guess That's What Really Concerns Me. I Don't Want To Be Looked At As A "quitter, That Couldn't Do It Myself With Willpower" Most Of The People In My Small Hometown Have Known Me All My Life As Being Obese. Now, My Thoughts Are With Bree, If I Don't Say Anything The Rumors Could Spread Like Wildfire That I'm On Crack Or Something??? Not What I Want Either. Thank You All For Your Great Advice. I've Decided A Few Days Before Surgery, I'll Give Her A Call To Let Her Know. God Knows, If Complications Arise I Would Want Her To Be Around To Help Out Where She Can.. I Love You All!!!! |
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