Oh, it has been different for me. My family has told me all my life in one way or the other how fat I am. But, now that I am making the transformation it really is all about me. There is no other reason that can make me do this and not give up. I have come to realize the most precious thing I have is my life and I plan to get the most out of the rest of my years. Being fit and healthy is the only way that will happen. So yes, this is all about me and my dreams and goals. Good luck to you and keep in touch.