Thanks dyingtobethin.... I have pretty much mentally accepted that I don't want to be with him. he makes me miserable. When he left for 9 months it was the happiest I have been in a long time. We have not been intimate in 6 years due to a very mean comment he made to me so that is not even there. I will be much better off dropping him.

Queen, I am so sorry to hear you have to put up with that. I had one of those once and left him when my daughter was 4 and am now remarried to a wonderful man. Just remember you can do bad all by yourself. If you are unhappy then start the mental process now and make sure you focus on getting you ready physically and mentally to move on in the near future. Life is so short do not waste any more time than you have to with such a jackass. My first husband was a sex addict and was after anything in a skirt and he was 18 yrs older than I. I will never regret getting out of that empty marriage.

Hey Queen! Recently there was a post about ordering on-line food. There were 10,000 items that could be ordered. I can't seem to find the link. I think you checked out the link. Will you please send that to me? Thanks, Decker