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03-05-2011, 11:49 AM
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Join Date: May 2010 Location: Surprise Az
Posts: 417
Weight Statistics May 20 2010 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
306 lb Start Weight:
195 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
111 lb Weight Loss:
35 lb Lb Left to Lose:
36.2745098039 % % Lost:
May 2011 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.9155029586 BMI Start:
32.4461538462 BMI Current:
26.6224852071 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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03-05-2011, 11:56 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: southwest
Posts: 74
Weight Statistics March 2010 Start Date:
October 11, 2010 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
358 lb Start Weight:
257 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
101 lb Weight Loss:
107 lb Lb Left to Lose:
28.2122905028 % % Lost:
December 2011 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index57.7764003673 BMI Start:
41.4763544536 BMI Current:
24.2079889807 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I am so sorry you are going through this terrible situation, I wish I had words of wisdom to offer you. I will keep you in my prayers and wish for a real resolution to your problems. I had a teenage son that was similiar to yours, I have to tell you, he turned 30 last week and we are very close. I think time and maturity helps tremendously for our kids. Hang in there.
Brooks
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03-05-2011, 12:15 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Idaho
Posts: 3,952
Weight Statistics Jan 2009 Start Date:
Dec. 22, 2009 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
317 lb Start Weight:
194 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
123 lb Weight Loss:
29 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.8012618297 % % Lost:
May 2011 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index51.1595500459 BMI Start:
31.3089990817 BMI Current:
26.6287878788 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Awww sweetie, this is so strange I saw your pic on banner this morning and thought I wonder how Clee is doing I am so sorry the world seems against you right now hun..You ARE a good Mother or your daughter would not feel your pain ! Your son is being brained washed and most all of us has went thru this at one point or another in our life when divorced... Now as for the drinking, you have always recognised your faults, so your smart enough to go for help and thats a good thing..count your blessings for the good things in your life, a loving husband , a daughter who adores you and yes all that weight you have lost, 5 lb gain is nothng dear, you could pee that off tomorrow, your gonna get thru this just fine, I am so glad your intelligent to get help..love ya, Annie~
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03-05-2011, 12:15 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC the best place in the world to live!
Posts: 3,453
Weight Statistics Halloween 2005 Start Date:
4' 11"
Height:
212 lb Start Weight:
127 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
85 lb Weight Loss:
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40.0943396226 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index42.8141338696 BMI Start:
25.6480896294 BMI Current:
26.2539500144 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Im so sorry life is being this cruel to you right now. I am glad to hear you found a therapist for your daughter but i hope y ou have one as well. You need to get some help. Sometimes we cannot handle everything that is thrown at us all at once. We need that help. Counseling, medication, whatever it takes to help us gain control of ourselves again. I am sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.
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03-05-2011, 12:53 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: S. Jersey
Posts: 2,481
Weight Statistics ?? Most recently Oct. 2010 Start Date:
January 31 2011 Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
342 lb Start Weight:
194 lb Current Weight:
189 lb Goal Weight:
148 lb Weight Loss:
5 lb Lb Left to Lose:
43.2748538012 % % Lost:
no pressure... 1 year? 1-2012 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.4990548204 BMI Start:
28.6456626759 BMI Current:
27.9073724008 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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You may want to consider an emergency walk in visit at your nearest hospital or mental health facility- especially if you are feeling at the end of your rope. Mental illness vs physical illness, it doesn't matter. There is help for all of us when it is needed.
It sounds like you have a lot on your plate; maybe too much. Please take care of yourself.
There is a 24 hr phone hotline in most states... CONTACT. You can call any time of day to talk to someone. (All phone counselors are trained.)
Good luck and God Bless.
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03-05-2011, 01:30 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Oregon
Posts: 863
Weight Statistics 10 yrs old Start Date:
Dec 14, 2010 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
266 lb Start Weight:
164 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
102 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.3458646617 % % Lost:
ASAP Goal Date:
Body Mass Index45.6538085938 BMI Start:
28.1474609375 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I am really sorry for all of the things that you are going through right now.
I have put myself in a psychiatric facility when things were beyond my ability to cope. I know that that idea is a very frightening one and you may feel like you are giving your control away, in actuality, you are giving yourself the time you need to get yourself under control in a secure environment. You might even get meds to deal with your situation.
In order to help your daughter you need to help yourself. It is better to put yourself in a position to get help than to keep up the insanity of trying to fix something that you can't fix.
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03-05-2011, 01:46 PM
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Join Date: May 2010 Location: Surprise Az
Posts: 417
Weight Statistics May 20 2010 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
306 lb Start Weight:
195 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
111 lb Weight Loss:
35 lb Lb Left to Lose:
36.2745098039 % % Lost:
May 2011 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.9155029586 BMI Start:
32.4461538462 BMI Current:
26.6224852071 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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03-05-2011, 01:58 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Oregon
Posts: 863
Weight Statistics 10 yrs old Start Date:
Dec 14, 2010 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
266 lb Start Weight:
164 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
102 lb Weight Loss:
24 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.3458646617 % % Lost:
ASAP Goal Date:
Body Mass Index45.6538085938 BMI Start:
28.1474609375 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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You go girl, the meth thing, that is one of the most pervasive and harmful drugs. I understand how you feel about your ex waiting for any crumb to create the illusion of destruction. I am so sorry for the position you are in!
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03-06-2011, 06:02 AM
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(((HUGS))) This post is breaking my heart.
Sorry to hear of what's going on, BUT.
I am not going to sugarcoat things.
First and foremost, get professional help immediately for your drinking and bring it under control. This is your priority. Make no mistake, alcohol can kill you.
Unless you do this, you won't be able to control other things, because you are letting alcohol take control of you. I sure hope you don't lose custody of your daughter, but you harming yourself with alcohol won't help her either.
To help your daughter, and to help your relationship with your son, you need to kick alcohol out of your life. Please don't think you can kick alcohol on your own, you are going to need professional help at least in the beginning, and you also are going to need peer help and support through the rest of your life, just as you will do better with peer support with this post op life.
PLEASE get help. You are worth the best things in life, but sometimes, it takes a lot of work.
(((((HUGS)))))
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03-06-2011, 08:40 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 9,445
Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 June 18,2012 Surgery Date:
5' 10"
Height:
363 lb Start Weight:
226 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
137 lb Weight Loss:
56 lb Lb Left to Lose:
37.741046832 % % Lost:
When I get there again Goal Date:
Body Mass Index52.0793877551 BMI Start:
32.4240816327 BMI Current:
24.3897959184 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Clee I gonna totally agree with Doc on this one. Its breaking my heart also. All regards to this. Every aspect to this. Doc has given you sound medical advice. Honey you have to help YOU before you can help anyone else ever. ANYONE else. Please please go get that help you need. It goes a long ways when you seek help and others will see that you are seeking help rather than not. Understand? We love you honey. Its time for you to love yourself now.
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