[christyblue]

hi everyone..yesterday turned out to be a not so good friday.as most of you know i worked taking care of an ms patient with a 19 yr old autistic son with many health problems.she has been hospitalized in a mental intitute for a week.while she was there i was taking food to her son and keeping in contact with him daily...well yesterday she got out and walked into the house to find her son dead.i had told her i wouldn't be there and her mom should check on him.well he's gone now...they think it was a seizure or heart attack.so my faith is shaken a bit.i just don't understand why.she won't see anyone she is in shock to say the least and back in the hospital.i feel guilty of course as if i let her down even tho it was out of my control.so please please please lift this family in prayer so they can get thru it. tony was going to graduate high school in a few weeks and then to college next yr and already had scholarships.it's such a waste.thanx
huggs
christy

[freebird]

oh christy i'm so sorry. please you must realize that it's not your fault, (((HUGS))) i know it's hard to understand a death at such a young age, but it happens and even though we don't understand it there has to be a reason. when my brother died people kept telling me that God had lent him to us for awhile and now God wanted him back. it's terrible to have happened at such a time. I will definitly keep this family in my prayers and will ask for a special prayer thought for the family in my church prayer group on Sunday.
(((HUGS))) from canada

[DocSanae]

(((((((((HUGS))))))))
Oh, christy, this is sooo sad, but you know you are not responsible in any way. Death at still a young age is a tragedy in itself, and it does make us ask all sorts of questions. Because of my work, I have seen it often, and it is always hard, even though we know there was nothing we could do, and something we never get used to. All we can say is, is that it was God's will. All we can do is pray for his soul and his family.
My prayers for them, and for you as well.
((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) again.

[Pillows]

Christy, I am so sad for the pain you and this family are feeling and going through right now. I feel that sometimes there are people that are so special that there time here is shortened. Whether that is due to Heavenly Father needing them on the other side or whether it is due to them learning life's lessons sooner than us, I don't know, but I do know that it is difficult for those they leave behind. big huggs sweetie. Try not to let your faith be shaken too long. Tomorrow is a new day and I do believe that you will have a chance to see him again, only under better circumstances than you could imagine.
Janae

[Catapillar]

My prayers are with you and this family. My faith was shaken in 99 when my aunt died. I learned after many years of struggling that even though I might not understand Gods will at the time he will shed light on it when we are ready. I think we all will have our faith shaken. I even think God expects it. I will pray additionally for your faith. Please pass on our condolences when your friend is ready for company.

[FemmeMode]

Christy... I'm sooo sorry. This is sooo sad!!
You had nothing to do with his death....don't take that on. You are a kind and giving person...and were there to love and serve that family...and that is what you gave them. I can only imagine what that mother must be going thru...I will definitely pray for that family in their time of greiving...and that they will have faith...and make his life a celebration...rather than focusing on his death. I don't know why...but I always felt comforted to know that God knows the number of my days...it was ordained before the beginning of time. This way it comforts me to know that death is not a mistake...and that his time here was planned...no matter that he was about to graduate and go to college with scholarships... this was His Time...


"Man's days are determined; you have decreed the number of his
months and have set limits he cannot exceed." ~Job 14:5

[lilacbloom]

really sorry for you. you should nt feel guilty or stressed about anything because you are trying your best to help her out. she is in shock, you can only be there for her when she is ready to talk and come out of her state