Vickie,
Had to laugh at this post. I too was confused with some of the words too. For the longest time I didnt have a clue what TOM was. I think I finally pm'd Kenya and said, what the heck is TOM. then the DH too, didnt have a clue what they were talking about and the NUT. I just figured they meant that their doctor was crazy. Then i got it.

so yes I agree. and your right we have all come a long ways. Isnt it amazing. Seems like only yeterday that I was a few weeks out and found this wonderful site and now Im going on almost 5 months out. I may not be on as much as I want to be lately but this is like my second family. So true with what you wrote Ms. Vickie.