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10-02-2007, 10:30 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 7,740
Weight Statistics 4/1/07 Start Date:
4/19/07 Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
258 lb Start Weight:
158 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
100 lb Weight Loss:
-7 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.7596899225 % % Lost:
04/19/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 38.0957781979 BMI Start:
23.3299726948 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass    |  The issue with the shrink
Ok i never followed up with you guys on this. I stopped going to the shrink i was approved to see. long stroy short he was a wierdo with control issues (just like me  ) No but seriously. second session i went and of course i bring kayla with me. and this guy does this in his house and we go thru the whole taking of of the shoes. then he decides he doesnt like where my car is parked and asks me to move it. THE ENTIRE STREET WAS EMPTY. I WAS NOT BLOCKING ANYTHING. I WAS NOT IN FRONT OF ANY OTHER HOUSES OR ANYTHING. there was NO REASON why my car couldnt stay where it was on the opposite side of the street. it had to be RIGHT IN FRONT of his mailbox. Why? No clue. so i put my shoes back on and kayla's shoes back on, got in the car and moved it. was that good enough? NO. he wanted it a certain way. i had to move back a little then up a little etc. so by the time the car was where he wanted it, we went back in, took off our shoes again, and sat down. his wife begins cooking something that smeeld god awful. the kitchen was adjacent to the room we were in. so i got up andi said i appreciate everything but i was done and wouldnt be back. I was not comfortable at all. the following week, after deleting EIGHT voicemails from him asking me to call him, i get a package in the mail at work. His home made flyers and a handwritten note with "please refer me to your organization" scribbled on a ripped piece of paper  W-I-E-R-D-O. I complained to the benefits coordinator. I am sure they wont do anything about it, but whatever. I can say I think that yes i hit bouts of depression, and yes i sit in the dark a lot (hence the new pic in my sigature) but it doesnt seem all that abnormal to me. I dont think I need to be institutionalized or anything. I just think I have hit a rough patch and once things settle down in my life I'll be alright. Thanks for reading my novel. PS. NEAS (Employee Assistance Program SUCKS) I would never go thru it again. I would never refer anyone to it no matter how cheap it is. it took them 4 months to approve me for therapy and find me someone and this is what they found me LOL!!
__________________ Anything worth having is worth working for Kenya R.  Lap RNY 4/19/07     |
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10-02-2007, 10:40 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Cuero, South Texas
Posts: 524
Weight Statistics May 1, 2007 Start Date:
June 25, 2007 Surgery Date:
Height: 270 lb Start Weight:
200 lb Current Weight:
130 lb Goal Weight:
70 lb Weight Loss:
70 lb Lb Left to Lose:
25.9259259259 % % Lost:
June 25, 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 45.83 BMI Start:
35.2 BMI Current:
22.31 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Good for you. He does sound like a weirdo. If you had issues when you first went to him can you imagine how you'd feel if you would have kept going to him. Did you check his credentials? Anyway we will all have rough patches and we will survive. Just keep coming back here. We all have each other. Somebody cares about you. Mattie
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10-02-2007, 11:01 AM
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| Cub Reporter Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: stone mountain, georgia
Posts: 59
Weight Statistics March 2007 Start Date:
July 10 Surgery Date:
Height: 257 lb Start Weight:
187 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
70 lb Weight Loss:
22 lb Lb Left to Lose:
27.2373540856 % % Lost:
July 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 44 BMI Start:
34 BMI Current:
26 BMI Goal:
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Wow, he sounds like a total psycho. Do you have a pastor you can talk to?
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10-02-2007, 11:07 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: WADING RIVER (Long Island), NY
Posts: 4,945
Weight Statistics 7/16/07 Start Date:
7/16/07 Surgery Date:
4' 11"
Height:
230 lb Start Weight:
148 lb Current Weight:
115 lb Goal Weight:
82 lb Weight Loss:
33 lb Lb Left to Lose:
35.652173913 % % Lost:
12/31/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 46.4492961793 BMI Start:
29.889112324 BMI Current:
23.2246480896 BMI Goal:
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Lol That Is Too Funny He Sounds Like He Has A Screw Loose. Lol Lol. I Think You Will Be Fine And You Have All Of Us! 
__________________ 3/2008 PREG. START WT 144LBS. GOAL WILL HAVE TO WAIT TILL AFTER BABY  230 lbs 7/2007 & 142 lbs 4/2008     |
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10-02-2007, 11:46 AM
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| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Davenport, IA
Posts: 1,356
Weight Statistics 12/28/06 Start Date:
May 14, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
253 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
61 lb Weight Loss:
42 lb Lb Left to Lose:
24.1106719368 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 42.0968047337 BMI Start:
31.9469822485 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
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Sounds like a hypnotist I went to once for weight control. It was in his house and he takes you back to a bedroom and has a vibrating bed. Talk about creepy. I was so tense I wouldn't let myself go under, I was afraid of what he would do. Never went back!!! Talk to your PCP, maybe he can suggest someone or put you on anti depressants for a little while.
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10-02-2007, 12:13 PM
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| Guru In Training  Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Northwest Iowa
Posts: 221
Weight Statistics 8/27/07 Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
231 lb Start Weight:
119 lb Current Weight:
120 lb Goal Weight:
112 lb Weight Loss:
-1 lb Lb Left to Lose:
48.4848484848 % % Lost:
10/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.2458376691 BMI Start:
21.7630072841 BMI Current:
21.9458896982 BMI Goal:
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It is sooooo hard finding the right therapist? I know this, i have had many. I had one when i was in high school that kept showing up where i worked and would ask me if i liked him. I did not go back. But i also had one that if it was nice outside we would go have our meeting outside and smoke cigs. She was so cool. And i have had alot in between. I am currently looking for one now. I have a couple of mental things that i take meds for, i am stable on them, but my phyc wants me to meet with someone to make this journey easier. I guess ill see.
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10-02-2007, 12:34 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: coarsegold california
Posts: 1,505
Weight Statistics 8/23/07 Start Date:
8/22/07 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
315 lb Start Weight:
193 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
122 lb Weight Loss:
23 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.7301587302 % % Lost:
I have no idea Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 49.3305858766 BMI Start:
30.2247716641 BMI Current:
26.6228558699 BMI Goal:
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What a freakin' weirdo, HE needs to see a shrink! I go through "dark" times too, my husband says I make our room a "cave" and go into it. I am on an anti-D mostly for panic disorder, it dosn't do much for depression when it hits, I just become cavewoman.
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10-02-2007, 02:21 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Near St. Louis, MO.
Posts: 950
Weight Statistics 04/17/2007 Start Date:
April 30, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
296 lb Start Weight:
160 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
136 lb Weight Loss:
10 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.9459459459 % % Lost:
05/21/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 49.2515976331 BMI Start:
26.6224852071 BMI Current:
24.9585798817 BMI Goal:
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Hmmmmm......sounds like the shrink needs a shrink!!!! lmao Maybe you can invite him over and torture him!!! lol
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10-02-2007, 02:31 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 7,740
Weight Statistics 4/1/07 Start Date:
4/19/07 Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
258 lb Start Weight:
158 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
100 lb Weight Loss:
-7 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.7596899225 % % Lost:
04/19/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 38.0957781979 BMI Start:
23.3299726948 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
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i am guessing i am fine. a lot of my self hate and down ness comes during TOM. so i would hope that i am safely assuming mood swings are sway from either extreme as a result of my wls??? im either extremely hopeful and very satisfied with life and my decision, or i hate the world lol! there is no in between just yet. and im ok with that. i guess. i dont think i need a shrink, or meds just yet. not to say i am not open to it if and when the time comes. but i am glad to know that i can come on here and post away and find at least one person who has had a similar experience. LOVE IT HERE
__________________ Anything worth having is worth working for Kenya R. Lap RNY 4/19/07 |
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10-02-2007, 05:22 PM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 3,781
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
280 lb Start Weight:
139 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
141 lb Weight Loss:
-11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
50.3571428571 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5692041522 BMI Start:
21.1325692042 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
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what a fruitcake (the shrink, NOT YOU!!!)....no wonder you left!! and what's up with the shoes?!?!?!? Everything happens for a reason and there are no accidents in God's plan....so you are better off where you are....! |
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