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10-16-2007, 09:37 PM
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| Big Loser  Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Greenville,NC
Posts: 124
Weight Statistics 02/17/2007 Start Date:
08/08/07 Surgery Date:
Height: 388 lb Start Weight:
319 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
69 lb Weight Loss:
159 lb Lb Left to Lose:
17.7835051546 % % Lost:
Sept 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0 BMI Start:
48.5 BMI Current:
24.3 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass |  Just need to vent Okay guys I just need to vent...One of my best friends decided to get the lapband when I decided to do mmy surgery. Truly, she tried to get it done before I had mine. She is about 2 1/2 weeks out now and obviously hasn't lost like I have. Now when people come into our work and start talking about how great I am looking (I have lost @ 60 lbs in 2 1/2 months) she tries to make me feel guilty for getting compliments when noone notices she has changed. I tried to tell her before she had this surgery that she would reach her goal in about 2-3 years where mine should take 1-2 years. Her parents are Dr and they were paying for her surgery so she did what they wanted. I don't want to be rude to her because I am proud of her for making this commitment but I can't take much more of her guilt trips. In addition she is starving and when people offer to bring in food she tells them..."We can't eat that" The other day she turned something down on my behalf which I have been craving for days!!!! thanks for letting me ramble and vent. You all have a great evening.
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10-16-2007, 11:49 PM
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| Super Moderator  | Awww (((((HUGS))))) I wonder, is she doing good with her diet when no one is around? Since lap banders can *cheat* much more earlier and easier than bypass, this could be the cause of her not losing as well as she wants to.
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10-16-2007, 11:59 PM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Oklahoma City, Okla USA
Posts: 773
Blog Entries: 46 Weight Statistics 05/17/02 Start Date:
05/17/02 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 355 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
163 lb Weight Loss:
17 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.9154929577 % % Lost:
may 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0686390533 BMI Start:
31.9469822485 BMI Current:
29.1183431953 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass    | It's funny Tina..but I've had a similar experience with a lapbander. I did several clinicals in the e/r and one of the r/n's had the lapband. Well one of the guy rn's told her about how I'd had the bypass and she went OFF about that. wow.. She was NOT happy with her choice, said it was the only one insurance would pay for, she'd had it for year and lost 60lbs. Man did she make my e/r time miserable when she was on..she gave me these hateful looks. Plus she gave me all the crap work, which since it was paramedic clinics wasn't appropriate. Plus she had the hardest time with eating she'd vomit all the time after eating...her dinner was kids portion of chicken mcnuggets from McDonalds. *shrugs shoulders* go figure. Like the doc said they can 'cheat' easier and earlier. Plus most of what I've heard the last couple of years when I ask questions is they never go back for fills or follow ups. They get it done and think that's it! (note: of course this e/r time was while I was training so I was very small and very fit..so to hear I'd lost 200 lbs at just 2 yrs out pissed her off royally)
__________________ --BREE open RNY 5/17/2002 -166 lbs(-200 at lowest)  Everything & Anything is possible with Belief in place....WLS changes LIVES  |
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10-17-2007, 03:25 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: NYC ~ Love it!!!
Posts: 2,988
Weight Statistics 4/19/06 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 333 lb Start Weight:
171 lb Current Weight:
155 lb Goal Weight:
162 lb Weight Loss:
16 lb Lb Left to Lose:
48.6486486486 % % Lost:
010/19/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.6269463668 BMI Start:
25.9976211073 BMI Current:
23.5650951557 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  |  Tina!!!!!! WOW....one of my best friends also had LB surgery about 6mos. after I had RNY....by that time I'd lost 111#'s....and now when she hit her 6mos post op...she's lost 50#'s which is great for her....but I could hear she was soooo disappointment. It's lead to MANY authentic conversations between the two of us about her thoughts and feelings about weight loss and food. She's honestly said she's cheated...and shared that she's not being as "GOOD" as she knows she 'could be.' ALSO....she realizes her in-authenticity and tried to cover it up...but now is looking in all corners of the inner work she has left to do. Like the doc said they can 'cheat' easier and earlier. She also admitted she thought it would 'work' a lot easier than it has. Hang in there in supporting your friend the best you can...and feel NO GUILT for your amazing accomplishment...you've done wonderfully and deserve all the praise!! Congrats!!
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10-17-2007, 05:36 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 3,260
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8" Height: 280 lb Start Weight:
148 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
132 lb Weight Loss:
-2 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.1428571429 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.5692041522 BMI Start:
22.5008650519 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | My step-sister had lap band in January...she's lost nearly 60 pounds...I had my surgery 2.5 months ago...I've lost 56 pounds. She's always looking at me with this strange look. She took the Mexico way out (she went across the border to have the surgery). I had mine here by a very reputable surgeon. I told her mom I would probably pass her up in weight loss quickly, as I had done my homework and knew the statistics. She does ALL kinds of things we aren't supposed to (drinks TONS of beer & doesn't get adjusted very often). I don't feel guilty for her choice, but I'm not around her that much, and she's NOT out there making choices for me. |
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10-17-2007, 06:04 AM
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| Big Loser Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Greenville,NC
Posts: 124
Weight Statistics 02/17/2007 Start Date:
08/08/07 Surgery Date:
Height: 388 lb Start Weight:
319 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
69 lb Weight Loss:
159 lb Lb Left to Lose:
17.7835051546 % % Lost:
Sept 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 59.0 BMI Start:
48.5 BMI Current:
24.3 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Thanks everyone...Doc yuo are right she admitted to me yesterday that she had already cheated. In addition I have talked to her about her secret eating. I think she did this surgery to passify her parents where as I did mine because I thought I had a heart attack in February. Unfortunately, she even gained weight to be approved for surgery. I pray for her...Thanks everyone for letting me vent this way I didn't say anything mean to her and I can continue being supportive.
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10-17-2007, 06:24 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 7,369
Weight Statistics 4/1/07 Start Date:
4/19/07 Surgery Date:
5' 9" Height: 258 lb Start Weight:
151 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
107 lb Weight Loss:
-14 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.4728682171 % % Lost:
04/19/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 38.0957781979 BMI Start:
22.2963663096 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | aww sorry this is happening to you. it is tough. though you are friends, there is also "competition". it's sad. i hope your friendship survives it. always come here to vent. we are here to supoprt you
__________________ Anything worth having is worth working for Kenya R.  Lap RNY 4/19/07     |
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10-17-2007, 06:40 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 3,591
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 363 lb Start Weight:
211 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
152 lb Weight Loss:
46 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.8732782369 % % Lost:
12/31/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.0793877551 BMI Start:
30.2720408163 BMI Current:
23.6724489796 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | This just comes back to choice. It was her CHOICE to have the lap band. I still for the life of me dont see how anyone can do that band if they ever held that thing in their hands. |
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10-17-2007, 07:11 AM
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| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Mount Vernon, NY
Posts: 7,369
Weight Statistics 4/1/07 Start Date:
4/19/07 Surgery Date:
5' 9" Height: 258 lb Start Weight:
151 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
107 lb Weight Loss:
-14 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.4728682171 % % Lost:
04/19/2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 38.0957781979 BMI Start:
22.2963663096 BMI Current:
24.36357908 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | true. when i saw it something about it urked (sp) me....but yes i agree with msvickie. it all boils down to choice.
__________________ Anything worth having is worth working for Kenya R. Lap RNY 4/19/07 |
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10-17-2007, 07:59 AM
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| WLS Master Guru  Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: fort wayne ,ind.
Posts: 675
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics 9-25-07 Start Date:
9-25-07 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 344 lb Start Weight:
225 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
119 lb Weight Loss:
65 lb Lb Left to Lose:
34.5930232558 % % Lost:
1-09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 55.5169880624 BMI Start:
36.3119834711 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | my support at work has warned me that people are going to be nasty and hateful. i think im prepared.i encourage everybody ,its hard knowing people can be so cruel.just smile and keep doing great! 
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