| | ||
| |||||||
  633 People Lost in total 55681 lbs = 29.10 % Give us permission to add your before & after Weight Loss Photos |   |
  |
| | Thread Tools | Display Modes |
04-26-2008, 09:44 PM
| #1 (permalink) |
| Big Loser Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Missouri
Posts: 149
Weight Statistics May 6, 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 259 lb Start Weight:
208 lb Current Weight:
125 lb Goal Weight:
51 lb Weight Loss:
83 lb Lb Left to Lose:
19.6911196911 % % Lost:
September 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 45.8747795414 BMI Start:
36.8415217939 BMI Current:
22.1403376165 BMI Goal:
 |  Second thoughts? Why oh why am I having second thoughts? It's driving me insane. I've been on my liquid diet for 6 days now. I have to admit, it's hard! Very hard, but I'm doing it. I am so tired and drained. I've been trying to busy myself and prepare, but I keep questioning whether or not I can truly do this and not because I can't eat what I want when I want, but because I feel like an emotional wreck. I'm scared, anxious, nervous, etc. I keep going through the "what ifs" and that definitely isn't fun. My husband has been wonderful support and keeps telling me I didn't make it this far for no reason. I have been on here many times along with Obesity Help - Weight Loss Surgery, Obesity Support Groups, Obesity Forums, Surgical Procedures. I've read many positive stories and seen the amazing pictures, so what is my problem? My doctor has a super low complication rate and has had no deaths in the 14 years he has been doing this. Please tell me I just have cold feet! I know I'm ready for the change. I WANT this change. I WANT to be healthy. Sure the outside is important, but first I want and need the inside to be better. :::SIGH::: Deep down I know this will be the best thing for me. I just need to "put my big girl panties on" and get over it! Thanks for letting me vent. I feel better knowing I laid it all out there.
__________________  |
|      |
| | Weight Loss Surgery Insurance |
| |
Yes, you can often get insurance cover for your Weight Loss Surgery. Our own Craig "Big-T" Thompson has been there and done that, and he's written an e-book about it.  |
|
04-26-2008, 10:01 PM
| #2 (permalink) |
| WLS Guru  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New Zealand
Posts: 452
Blog Entries: 2 Weight Statistics 10/27/07 Start Date:
11 March 08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 239 lb Start Weight:
156 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
83 lb Weight Loss:
16 lb Lb Left to Lose:
34.7280334728 % % Lost:
12/25/08 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 42.3323255228 BMI Start:
27.6311413454 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | What you are going through is perfectly normal. You are going through and going to go through some super changes.... be easy on yourself, cut yourself some slack, focus on the positives, and you will be fine. *hugs*
__________________ Leelee  Your Attitude determines Your Altitude   239lbs - lost 22lbs pre-op= 218lbs day of surgery.   |
|
| |
|
04-26-2008, 10:08 PM
| #3 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Tampa, FL
Posts: 1,620
Blog Entries: 8 Weight Statistics July 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 271 lb Start Weight:
151 lb Current Weight:
145 lb Goal Weight:
120 lb Weight Loss:
6 lb Lb Left to Lose:
44.2804428044 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 43.7357667585 BMI Start:
24.3693755739 BMI Current:
23.4010560147 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | What you are doing is completely normal ~ it's important that you are taking this seriously and that you are aware of all the potential ups and downs. I actually took Xanax for 1-2 weeks pre-op which really helped me a lot. Hang in there - you'll be doing the WLS dance before you know it!  Wishing you an uncomplicated surgery and a speedy recovery!
__________________   |
|
| |
|
04-26-2008, 11:46 PM
| #4 (permalink) |
| Super Moderator  | Your pre op cold feet and roller coaster emotions are quite normal. Just take it one day at a time, tomorrow is another day. (((((((HUGS)))))))) You'll do fine.
__________________ "In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun."   Just a li'l bit 'bout myself  |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 06:31 AM
| #5 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Hudson Falls, NY
Posts: 1,805
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Start Date:
1-29-08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 286 lb Start Weight:
184 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
102 lb Weight Loss:
34 lb Lb Left to Lose:
35.6643356643 % % Lost:
eventually Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 50.6570924666 BMI Start:
32.5905769715 BMI Current:
26.5684051398 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Oh yeah, I'd worry about you if you weren't nervous!!!!! We all went through it and it's perfectly normal. This is a huge step and it's major surgery. You're life will never be the same - it'll be soooo mcuh better!!!!! You're tired and drained as much from an emotional aspect as you are from switching to the liquid diet. It's amazing what stress can do to our bodies. Just don't forget that if you're doing this now, once you have your tiny little pouch, you will be posting that you are struggling to eat or drink anything! This, I have always said as I had a 6 week pre-op diet over christmas and new years, is THE hardest part. Once you are on the table and they give you the good stuff, you'll wake up to your new, and improved life!
__________________ Kelly 5'3"    |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 07:35 AM
| #6 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: May 2007 Location: minnesota
Posts: 3,453
Weight Statistics july 21, 2007 Start Date:
august 17, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 6" Height: 339 lb Start Weight:
185 lb Current Weight:
160 lb Goal Weight:
154 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.4277286136 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index 54.7100550964 BMI Start:
29.8565197429 BMI Current:
25.8218549128 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | this is so normal!! i have said b4 this is such an emotional journey, i have learned so much about myself...this will look up for you soon!!!
__________________ Dawn  |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 08:38 AM
| #7 (permalink) |
| Seasoned Veteran  Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 3,535
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 10" Height: 363 lb Start Weight:
211 lb Current Weight:
165 lb Goal Weight:
152 lb Weight Loss:
46 lb Lb Left to Lose:
41.8732782369 % % Lost:
12/31/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.0793877551 BMI Start:
30.2720408163 BMI Current:
23.6724489796 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | My advice at this stage is always this........ BREATHE. We have a spot ready and waiting for you on the losers bench. |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 10:31 AM
| #8 (permalink) |
| WLS Mentor  Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: upstate ny
Posts: 1,199
Weight Statistics 1/10/08, the final endeavor, I WILL SUCCEED!!! Start Date:
3/12/08 Surgery Date:
5' 3" Height: 298 lb Start Weight:
202 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
96 lb Weight Loss:
62 lb Lb Left to Lose:
32.2147651007 % % Lost:
7/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 52.7825648778 BMI Start:
35.7787855883 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | As The Others Have Said, Your Feelings Are Completely Normal.. The Support Of Family Is Extremely Important, As Well As Keeping In Touch With Other Forms Of Support Such As These Sites Are Life Savers... Don't Try To Hide Your Emotions, By Getting It Out Always Helps Me!! Lol, |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 10:39 AM
| #9 (permalink) |
| Guru In Training  Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 234
Weight Statistics July 07 Start Date:
1/24/08 Surgery Date:
5' 5" Height: 309 lb Start Weight:
189 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
120 lb Weight Loss:
49 lb Lb Left to Lose:
38.8349514563 % % Lost:
02/01/09 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 51.4146745562 BMI Start:
31.4478106509 BMI Current:
23.2946745562 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass | Sharon, Hang in there girl. Believe it or not these fears are normal. Heck I had everything in order if something had happened. I cried while they wheeled me into surgery. Your doctor sounds like he has been doing this for a long time so you are in capable hands. STay right here for the next week and we'll help you to your date. You are doing this for you and no one else. I'm sure lots of people are giving you advise and trying to change your mind. Stay focused!
__________________ Kim   |
|
| |
|
04-27-2008, 10:48 AM
| #10 (permalink) |
| Guru In Training  Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Mira Loma, CA 91752
Posts: 283
Blog Entries: 1 Weight Statistics April 15, 2006 Start Date:
May 10, 2006 Surgery Date:
6' 3" Height: 345 lb Start Weight:
189 lb Current Weight:
200 lb Goal Weight:
156 lb Weight Loss:
-11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.2173913043 % % Lost:
anytime Goal Date:
Body Mass Index 43.1173333333 BMI Start:
23.6208 BMI Current:
24.9955555556 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss Method Roux en Y Gastric Bypass  | We're here to help you through the process. I too had reservations about surgery, but this was my very first surgery under general anesthetic, and I was worried. I had sleep apnea too, which also created worry in my head. Everything turned out fine, and in two years, I'm extremely close to losing 150 pounds. I started at 345 and am currently 198. Think of how much better you'll feel without carrying all that extra weight. I can now get up off the floor, walk around the block easily, get out of the bathtub, won't break any more toilet seats, etc. This place will help you through any questions you may have along the way too. DAVE
__________________ Dave Chambers  Dave in 2005, a few months prior to surgery  liquid vitamins:www.bariatricliquidvitamins.com  liquid vitamins: www.liquidbariatricvitamins.comDried peas-high protein snack: www.dried-peas.com Save $$$$ on gas: http://www.ragdoll.com/Ethos%20Re-formulator.htm Ragdoll cat problem: www.ragdoll.com  |
|
| |
| |
| |
| |
| Thread Tools | |
| Display Modes | |
| |
Similar Threads | ||||
| Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
| my thoughts on eating... | Kenyar | Coffee Talk | 23 | 02-26-2008 05:21 PM |
| Some thoughts...add yours too! | BreeChick | Stupid Questions | 8 | 09-03-2007 08:37 PM |
| Just some thoughts for all of you. | Robbin | Personal Thoughts | 12 | 06-20-2007 11:41 AM |
| want your thoughts on this.... | Pillows | Coffee Talk | 9 | 02-16-2006 12:11 PM |
| Vera's Thoughts | vhoupt | Your Profile | 1 | 11-08-2005 10:40 PM |
REMEMBER..
Amina 
Linear Mode
