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05-15-2008, 03:41 AM
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| | Whipper Snapper
Join Date: May 2008 Location: United Kingdom
Posts: 25
Weight Statistics Soon Start Date:
05/21/2008 Surgery Date:
5' 4"
Height:
393 lb Start Weight:
345 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
48 lb Weight Loss:
205 lb Lb Left to Lose:
12.213740458 % % Lost:
Body Mass Index67.4509277344 BMI Start:
59.2126464844 BMI Current:
24.0283203125 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Hi all,
Its getting closer 6 days now and im struggling with my head i float between i want to do this get on with it time so the day comes quicker and what the hell am i doing i must be stupid to put myself through this. i feel stupid feeling like this no being in control of my feelings it like living on an emotional roller coaster. I spend half my day in tears i cant really tell you why but the slightest thing sets me off.
am i normal? will this pass? can i do this?
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05-15-2008, 03:53 AM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: North Texas
Posts: 5,236
Weight Statistics I've lost/gained my whole life!!! Start Date:
Aug 1, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
280 lb Start Weight:
154 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
126 lb Weight Loss:
4 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45 % % Lost:
Summer 2008 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index42.5692041522 BMI Start:
23.4130622837 BMI Current:
22.8049307958 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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it will pass...and you will be so glad you did this!! Keep your eye on the prize...it's right around the corner!
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05-15-2008, 04:46 AM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Buffalo, NY
Posts: 2,573
Weight Statistics 12-19-07 Start Date:
1-29-08 Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
286 lb Start Weight:
165 lb Current Weight:
150 lb Goal Weight:
121 lb Weight Loss:
15 lb Lb Left to Lose:
42.3076923077 % % Lost:
eventually Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.6570924666 BMI Start:
29.2252456538 BMI Current:
26.5684051398 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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This is very normal. This is a big step! Just look at all of our posts about not regretting things, our wow moments, our before and after pictures and maybe it'll help to ease your mind. If you weren't nervous then you wouldn't be human! But trust me - I don't regret a single day since this began.
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05-15-2008, 06:48 AM
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| | Super Moderator
Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Tokyo, Japan
Posts: 24,788
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Pre op last minute cold feet and roller coaster emotions are quite normal.
This is major surgery after all, and will have a great impact on your life that will last through the rest of your life.
Tick off your reasons for wanting to go through it, I am sure just that count will calm you down a bit.
(((((((HUGS))))))
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05-15-2008, 07:21 AM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: North Dakota
Posts: 3,521
Weight Statistics June 11,2007, lost 36 Lb. before surgery Start Date:
September 10, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
373 lb Start Weight:
205 lb Current Weight:
180 lb Goal Weight:
168 lb Weight Loss:
25 lb Lb Left to Lose:
45.0402144772 % % Lost:
2 years Goal Date:
Body Mass Index62.0636686391 BMI Start:
34.1100591716 BMI Current:
29.950295858 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I think everyone goes threw those feelings you are having right now. Like Kelly said read some of the posts that people have written about their journey. I love looking at the before and after pictures and that keeps me on track with my eating. This site is a Godsend for me, I love coming here and reading about peoples journey and sure has given me lots of insite about just living with this surgery. AI am soooo happy that I have done this surgery so that I could get back my life. I would do it over in a heart beat again. My health has improved tremendously and I am just so happy now with the results and I feel and look much better now. I think I tried every diet there is out there, and I fel like there was no hope for me anymore. I even tried dieticians and I followed there plan to the tee and still not losing the way I should have and then gaining it almost all back. What made up my mind is when my daughter had it done and saw the results and how happy she was and that made my mind up to do it. My family and friends are so amazed by my weight loss and see how healthy I have gotton since surgery. I would do it all over again in a heartbeat!!!!!
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05-15-2008, 07:29 AM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Floyd County Virginia
Posts: 9,445
Weight Statistics September 19th 2007 Start Date:
September 19th 2007 June 18,2012 Surgery Date:
5' 10"
Height:
363 lb Start Weight:
226 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
137 lb Weight Loss:
56 lb Lb Left to Lose:
37.741046832 % % Lost:
When I get there again Goal Date:
Body Mass Index52.0793877551 BMI Start:
32.4240816327 BMI Current:
24.3897959184 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Yes honey you are very normal. I agree with Doc, honey remember the reason you started persuring this route to begin with. Mine and your weight was about the same. I did my surgery to save my life. No Dr told me hey...(.if you dont your gonna die) but I would had. I could feel it in my self if I continued on the same path as I was. Some where along the road somthing snapped in you that made you decide OK THIS IS IT........ i have to do it.
We WILL be here for you before during and after. If you would like to talk one on one with me let me know and I will be more than happy to.
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05-15-2008, 10:46 AM
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| | Guru In Training
Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LAFAYETTE LA
Posts: 211
Weight Statistics OCT 13,2007 Start Date:
JUNE 5Th 2008 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
397 lb Start Weight:
213 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
184 lb Weight Loss:
43 lb Lb Left to Lose:
46.3476070529 % % Lost:
18 MONTHS Goal Date:
Body Mass Index64.0704775023 BMI Start:
34.3753443526 BMI Current:
27.4357208448 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
| WELL I THINK YOU ARE PRETTY NORMAL. MY SURGERY IS SET FOR JUNE 5TH AND I AM SO NERVOUS! I WONDER IF IM DOING THE RIGHT THING BUT I KNOW EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE. THE OUT COME WILL BE GREAT AND SAME WITH YOU EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE YOU WILL BE HAPPY IN THE END.
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05-15-2008, 11:43 AM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Alabama
Posts: 4,019
Weight Statistics 9/28/07 Start Date:
9/28/07 Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
279 lb Start Weight:
186 lb Current Weight:
175 lb Goal Weight:
93 lb Weight Loss:
11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
33.3333333333 % % Lost:
18 months Goal Date:
Body Mass Index45.0268595041 BMI Start:
30.0179063361 BMI Current:
28.2426538108 BMI Goal:
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It will pass and you will feel much better when you start to see all of the positive results from the surgery. Good luck on your surgery. You're almost there.
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05-15-2008, 12:50 PM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: coarsegold california
Posts: 1,541
Weight Statistics 8/23/07 Start Date:
8/22/07 Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
315 lb Start Weight:
192 lb Current Weight:
170 lb Goal Weight:
123 lb Weight Loss:
22 lb Lb Left to Lose:
39.0476190476 % % Lost:
I have no idea Goal Date:
Body Mass Index49.3305858766 BMI Start:
30.0681666295 BMI Current:
26.6228558699 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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I felt this way clear up to the IV and "feel good" meds!! You are quite normal!!
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05-15-2008, 05:40 PM
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| | Seasoned Veteran
Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Jacksonville, Florida
Posts: 5,162
Weight Statistics July 21, 2007 Start Date:
August 6, 2007 Surgery Date:
5' 3"
Height:
287 lb Start Weight:
151 lb Current Weight:
140 lb Goal Weight:
136 lb Weight Loss:
11 lb Lb Left to Lose:
47.3867595819 % % Lost:
January 1, 2009 Goal Date:
Body Mass Index50.8342151675 BMI Start:
26.7455278408 BMI Current:
24.7971781305 BMI Goal:
Weight Loss MethodRoux en Y Gastric Bypass
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You will defiantely have those flip flop days...like Traci said, mine was right up until the feel good juice was given to me as they were telling me what was going to be happening in the OR.
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