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Old 07-06-2007, 02:19 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok. So I am about 3 months out and have a few questions....
WOW. Never imagined saying "I'm about 3 months out." Time flew

I guess I am starting to wonder:

*At 3 months out, am I out of the woods with respect to complications?
*is there anymore stretching thats going to happen with this pouch or will I eat like a bird forever?
*am I ever going to enjoy eating again?
*at what point will I start to feel hunger, if ever?
*will I always have to separate frood and beverages?


LOL! I guess it is all relative but I'm just curious if I'm "OK" at this point??
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Old 07-06-2007, 02:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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oooh also, I'm afraid to go out. I mean I got to work and I run errands, but I am afraid to be away from home or someplace "off schedule" for too long. Is that normal or am I a freak? Be honest...
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Old 07-06-2007, 02:45 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Kenya,

Some of the seasoned vets will have to answer your first questions, but as for as being freaked out to go out.
I don't even give it a second thought I just go and I always make sure I have my liquids with me.

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Old 07-06-2007, 02:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
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When I Also Cant Answer Your First Questions. Are You Afraid To Go Out Cause You Might Get Sick? I Thought About That Too, Once I Get My Surgery When Will I Feel Safe To Leave Home Off Schedule With Out Getting Sick, Etc
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Old 07-06-2007, 03:05 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I think I'm afraid to go out because its a break in the routine and I might scrww up (i.e. not drink, or eat something i'm not supposed to as opposed to being in a familiar place ans sticking to my regular meals and water) I think thats it, I'm not sure if its deeper than that...
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Old 07-06-2007, 03:21 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Hmmmm Of Course You Know I Havent Had Surgery Yet So I Dont Know But I Also Have Stressed Over This Subject Exactly How You Described It. So Maybe Its Normal Your Still New At All This So Your Prob Still Nervous
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Now Kenya I cant help you with alot of that....just like the rest but..... get your butt outta the house already !. You go show the new you off. Do what Roz said. Take it with you! Shoves Kenya off the couch and tells her to go buy a new outfit and wear it out even if its the store !
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HI KENYA...
first off ...no drinking with meals is a NO NO for my surgery and always. I have still never broken that rule. I have taken drinks sooner then 30 mintues and paid for it with throwing up .

HUNGER will return but it happens at different stages. I always had hunger from early out we are all different in this aspect!!

Between six months and 12 months you will noticably see that you can eat more and be amazed and scared when that starts to happen. I think actually for me it was 10 months post op at easter.

As far as complications...things can arise from this surgery i think always.
I am seeing alot of my peers that had surgery in 2005 with me have alot of bowl issues. TWISTED bowls, hernias and its alarming how much im seeing this. WHAT i hear is happening from them is that they have lost
so much weight that they have pockets inside them now and the bowl gets twisted up inthese empty spots.
DURING the rapid weight loss gall bladder issues can arise ...so that can happen during all the rapid weight loss months and happens. I wouldnt stress it...and i have also seen people as far as 5 months out find out they have strictures.
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*At 3 months out, am I out of the woods with respect to complications?
Not to scare you, but unfortunately, the answer is no.
There are a number of stuff that can happen as a result of ANY abdominal surgery, not just gastric bypass throughout your life, and there are others that gastric bypass contributes to greatly.
The former are hernias, adhesions, torsion, and blockage to name a few.
The latter are gall stones, and sometimes, kidney stones, that can be caused by dehydration and as a result, the bile/urine concentration being too high and the pigments, salts and fat included in them crystalize and form stones. This is another reason you need to be consciencious about keeping well hydrated.

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*is there anymore stretching thats going to happen with this pouch or will I eat like a bird forever?
Yes. The pouch is said to settle itself from around 6-12 months, and you should be able to get in 2-3 oz, sometimes up to 6 oz per sitting in the end.
So, to your second Q here, depending on what amount you consider eating like a bird, the answer can be either yes or no.

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*am I ever going to enjoy eating again?
This depends on what your definition of "enjoy eating" is.

Is it a heaped plate of food of whatever you mind fancies?

Or is it eating healthy, and enjoying the conversation and congenial atmosphere that accompanies an enjoyable meal rather than the meal itself as in blocking out everything else for the sake of food?

If it's the former, then the answer is a qualified "no". To keep your initial weight loss success, you will need to watch what food you eat and in what amounts. It is possible to sabotage your tool, heap your plate, and graze as you will, which as a result will lead to the return of your weight, which I am sure you do not want to happen.

If it's the latter, then the answer is a resounding yes. You won't let food consume your thoughts, you'll be able to interact much better with the people who are with you, enjoy the conversation and enjoy the atmosphere of the place. Have a lot of fun.

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*at what point will I start to feel hunger, if ever?
As Lisa says, yes, hunger will return. When differs with people. Some will feel it very early out, while others won't feel it until past 12 months.
Actually, to be able to "feel full", you also need to understand what "feel hungry" is, as you need to know the sensation of empty in relation to full.

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*will I always have to separate frood and beverages?
Yes. As Lisa says, the Pouch Rules is very important in ensuring your successful use of your tool.
Actually, it is fine have water on hand to sip a very very small amount, just enough to moisten the food for swallowing, but only for that.

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oooh also, I'm afraid to go out. I mean I got to work and I run errands, but I am afraid to be away from home or someplace "off schedule" for too long.
Get out and show off the new you, young lady!
Devise a survival kit to have with you all the time, that includes water and protein loaded snack that you can eat on the go if needs be. BreeChick introduced her home made protein ball in the Recipe section a while back which you might want to check, or choose your favorite protein bar. Something like that.

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I do have another "stupid question" I guess when i eat solid food, I can only get in about 2 MAYBE 3 ozs. But when i drink I can drink more i think. maybe its perception?? or are oiquids just easier to get in?

As for the full feeling, I TOTALLY get that, but i never feel hungry. I literally have to set reminders in my outlook calendar at work so that something pops up to remind me to eat. My stomach doesnt growel (well sometimes my pouch "talks" lol but i dont take it as hunger. It usually happend while I'm eating lol! Maybe I'm missing something? I think Im paying attention.

I cant help but think I am doing something wrong...I want to make sure I'm training myself right for the future...
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