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Old 09-04-2007, 03:19 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default I started back to work part-time

Yesterday was my first "real" time back at work. I had soooo much anxiety that I had to take a vailum. Everything seemeed okay. Today when I went in my boss asked me why some things weren't done before I left for my surgery. He was right they should have been done or I should have delegated someone to do it. I just busted out in tears...I felt soooo bad. Ususally I would have reacted to him with a "you're right I'll try harder the next time" After reading many of these threads I realize there is a lot of emotions going on. Please just say a prayer for me that I relax and don't get into crying spells any more at work. Does anyone have a suggestion of how they handled all the emotional change? Thanks for letting me vent!
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Old 09-04-2007, 03:22 PM   #2 (permalink)
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So Sorry Your Going Thru This. Im Sorry I Dont Have Any Advice For You Since Im Also Go Thru The Emotional Roller Coaster ALSO. If It Continues Maybe You Should Seek Therapy.

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Old 09-04-2007, 06:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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hmmm. i dont handle it at all. LOL. I stay away from the people who irritated me pre-op so there are no altercations. i dont cry anymore. i am now dealing with rage and any and everything sets me off being that i hate my job and everyone who works there LOL! you'll find a way to manage it.
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Old 09-04-2007, 08:46 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Well, i havent had this done yet so I cant help you on that part. However.... Your boss shouldnt have hit you with that today. Not the first day. He/SHE could have waited a couple of days and then gradually told you a little about it. I hope they give you a WE MISSED YOU........... Im glad your back. Breathe, rest and tomorrow will be a new day sweeite.
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Old 09-04-2007, 09:18 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Thanks for all of your support. I think he realized I was crying because when I left he said very sweetly, "Princess, It was nice to have you here today, I hope you're feeling okay."
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Old 09-04-2007, 09:25 PM   #6 (permalink)
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It's an adjustment, to say the least. Just try to focus on you and keeping yourself calm. Yeah, I know, sooo much easier said than done. But if you start feeling anxious, take a quick walk or something. Maybe go to the bathroom for a few minutes. Just to gather your thoughts. We're here if you need us!
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(((((HUGS)))) This is part of the journey, sorry the second day wasn't all roses, but at least your boss tried to make amends for it. Just take things slowly, one day at at a time, tomorrow, or rather, today is another day.
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Old 09-05-2007, 10:09 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Today was much better. I guess since I am a workaholic I put more pressure on myself then some. It helped to have you all to vent to and know I am not alone out here. Again Thanks...tina
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