I guess I don't agree with the doctor saying that the surgery is only for people that are 400lbs +
I would keep looking around and try to find another doctor that may have different opinions.
I know at 250lbs I couldn't lose the weight on my own after many years of failure. And I would of keep pursing it if my surgeon had told me I wasn't a canidate. At my appointment yesterday my blood pressure was already back in a normal range
So if this is something you truely believe you need don't give up (((((hugs))))