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Old 01-20-2009, 03:36 PM   #1 (permalink)
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November 27, 2007
Surgery Date:
5' 6"
Height:
328 lb
Start Weight:
163 lb
Current Weight:
145 lb
Goal Weight:
165 lb
Weight Loss:
18 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
50.3048780488 %
% Lost:
within 18 months
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
52.9348025712
BMI Start:
26.3060146924
BMI Current:
23.4010560147
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Has anyone experienced personality changes due to this surgery? My other half told me today that I am a "Cunt" his words, not mine. I know that I have changed some due to not allowing people walk all over me now because before I thought I had to. But he says that I am intolerable now, and I've found that I am no longer in love with him either. How many of you have expereinced this? Or heard of this?
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Old 01-20-2009, 04:38 PM   #2 (permalink)
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4/19/2007
Surgery Date:
5' 9"
Height:
260 lb
Start Weight:
152 lb
Current Weight:
165 lb
Goal Weight:
108 lb
Weight Loss:
-13 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
41.5384615385 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
38.3910943079
BMI Start:
22.4440243646
BMI Current:
24.36357908
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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heard of issues with couples post op. i have lived thru some issues with friends post op. its hard. hang in there.
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Old 01-20-2009, 04:51 PM   #3 (permalink)
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4.29.08 RNY
Surgery Date:
5' 8"
Height:
301 lb
Start Weight:
168 lb
Current Weight:
170 lb
Goal Weight:
133 lb
Weight Loss:
-2 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
44.1860465116 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
45.7618944637
BMI Start:
25.5415224913
BMI Current:
25.8455882353
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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Wow. Does he kiss his mom with a mouth like that??? My DH would be missing a face!

Yeah, there have been issues mentioned in these, and other bariatric surgery boards. some folk, whether the patient or the family member, have dealt with change that was not necessarily expected nor wanted.

There is a family forum for such posts in this group.

Hoping for the best for you.
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1.11.09: 100 lbs down! Century Club! WHOO HOO!
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Old 01-20-2009, 05:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Feb.08
Start Date:
Nov. 10th 2008
Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
314 lb
Start Weight:
225 lb
Current Weight:
160 lb
Goal Weight:
89 lb
Weight Loss:
65 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
28.3439490446 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
49.1739808421
BMI Start:
35.236132769
BMI Current:
25.0568055246
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
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Even with what little bit I have losed I have noticed that I feel much better, have so much more energy and stand up for myself when ever I need to. I think that all comes from feeling better about our self. More self esteem. Wash your husband mouth out with some good anti bacterial soap.LOL
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Old 01-20-2009, 08:08 PM   #5 (permalink)
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05/17/02
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05/17/02
Surgery Date:
5' 5"
Height:
355 lb
Start Weight:
179 lb
Current Weight:
175 lb
Goal Weight:
176 lb
Weight Loss:
4 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
49.5774647887 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
59.0686390533
BMI Start:
29.7839053254
BMI Current:
29.1183431953
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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oh honey HELL YEAH it does.
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Old 01-20-2009, 08:29 PM   #6 (permalink)
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1/14/2008
Surgery Date:
5' 10"
Height:
330 lb
Start Weight:
235 lb
Current Weight:
200 lb
Goal Weight:
95 lb
Weight Loss:
35 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
28.7878787879 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
47.3448979592
BMI Start:
33.7153061224
BMI Current:
28.693877551
BMI Goal:

Weight Loss Method
Roux en Y Gastric Bypass
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OOOHHHH - I can't even begin to write what I want to - the police would show up at my door if this site was monitered. Similar to Judijo...but with all my Newark New Jersey up bringing behind me.
I will say this, I can't imagine you went from '0' to 'bitch' all on your own, there had to be issues that you were keeping burried prior, but now are not tolerating.
So unless you've had shock therapy or some kind of mind altering experiment done to you that would totally 'change your personality'.......
I would bet it's just him not likeing you not putting up with his crap!
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Old 01-20-2009, 08:30 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Height:
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Start Weight:
235 lb
Current Weight:
200 lb
Goal Weight:
95 lb
Weight Loss:
35 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
28.7878787879 %
% Lost:

Body Mass Index
47.3448979592
BMI Start:
33.7153061224
BMI Current:
28.693877551
BMI Goal:

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By the way...
fabulous job on the weight loss!
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Old 01-20-2009, 10:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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January 1, 2008
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January 11, 2008
Surgery Date:
5' 7"
Height:
339 lb
Start Weight:
160 lb
Current Weight:
150 lb
Goal Weight:
179 lb
Weight Loss:
10 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
52.802359882 %
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July 4, 2009 FIREWORKS, BABY!
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53.0891067053
BMI Start:
25.0568055246
BMI Current:
23.4907551793
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Ditto on what Denise said....I tell ya, she can do all my talking for me!
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Old 01-21-2009, 12:22 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Been a yo yo dieter as far back as I can remember.
Start Date:
April 2, 2008
Surgery Date:
5' 2"
Height:
230 lb
Start Weight:
130 lb
Current Weight:
135 lb
Goal Weight:
100 lb
Weight Loss:
-5 lb
Lb Left to Lose:
43.4782608696 %
% Lost:
January 2009
Goal Date:

Body Mass Index
42.0629552549
BMI Start:
23.7747138398
BMI Current:
24.6891259105
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I do know what you are talking about, since the surgery I have found I am unwilling to let my daughter and my husband walk all over me and say so I guess to my husband it sounds like "bitching" and the "you've changed since the surgery what a shame", its not that I find that the both of them take advantage of my having more energy and doing just about everything there is to do in this house. My daughter works part time and sleeps most of the other time if she isn't out running the roads or visiting her friends she knows someone will be here to watch her 2 kids, she moved in with us over a year and half ago because her and her jerk off boyfriend couldn't keep it together and couldn't pay thier bills. I am so tired of the so called 2 adults in this house acting like they can't get up off thier tush to do anything. 2 years ago I went on disability retirement at the V.A med center because of a coronary bypass and then a reopen of the chest because of the breast bone not healing well, I am so ready to get back to nursing, there is only one great point to this is, I get to spend alot of time with my grandkids and they need that stabilizing factor in thier lives. But I am still fed up with all of this..Sorry this is so long but the post got me to thinking, in this similar life of mine......
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IF you call it a personality change. You have more energy, better self esteem, so of course, you are not going to suffer any fools. It is who you are who before was hiding behind that thick facade. Too bad they only saw your surface, not the beauty inside.
We have a forum called Family and Loved Ones, so please check that out.
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