I'm sorry that this is long-ish. Thanks in advance for taking the time to read it.
I've been trying to do everything in my power to get the money together to have gastric bypass via private pay. Somehow, someday I will do it. As the case has been for the last 20 years, I'm also still dieting and exercising. I have a 40 BMI and many comorbidities. I also pay for the best health insurance plan that my employer is capable of obtaining from BCBS of AL.
Sometimes, when I tell people that my policy has an exclusion they tell me it is my employers fault that it isn't included. I've checked very carefully, it's not my employers fault. BCBS of AL has exclusions on ALL of their policies for small businesses and for individuals. This makes me so upset.
Sour grapes on my behalf? Maybe. But, honestly- they are willing to pay for all of my obesity related illnesses and for the open heart surgery that I will probably need in 5 years but ALL Bariatric services are excluded? Even though my PCP, my endocrinologist and my cardiologist all agree I should have the surgery and would be willing to write letters on my behalf, bariatric surgery is simply not an option? Really? Not even with a 6 month diet? No way? No how??? Nope, No way.
I know that there are many of you out there that have found yourselves in the same shoes as me. Is there truly NOTHING we can do about it? Is it really right that health insurance companies are allowed to deny us a potentially life saving and/or life extending surgery? This isn't a nose job. If my MDs that do not benefit financially from the surgery (endo & cardio) say I need the surgery... their are not considered? Nope
Type "Bob Clegg Bariatric New Hampshire" into google. He's a senator and you and I are not... I get that. He was able to make change in his state. There has to be a way that we can be allowed to have a chance to have the care that we deserve.
I'm nobody. I'm a morbidly obese, single parent, hard working, health insurance policy holding, computer savvy, diabetic woman that currently costs my insurance company approximately 3000 dollars per month due to obesity related illness. If I had the surgery I would save my health insurance company a lot of money.
I'm not a politician and I've never been one to take on a cause but, I feel like I'm being harmed by this exclusion and I feel that I'm being discriminated against.
What about some of you? Does anyone here have any thoughts or ideas about how I (or we) can try to bring about change? I'm not expecting any miracles, I'm not so idealistic as to think that I could change what a huge company is doing to deny me the chance to be well. But, I just feel like if all of us walk away and sulk about what they do to us nothing will ever change for anyone. We may be obese and society may not "like" us but we deserve for our health insurance companies to fulfill their obligation to care for our health.
Seriously, I am wide open to ideas and willing to investigate but, I'm not sure where to start. Maybe you know where to start but don't have the time? Tell me where to start. Please.
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