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Old 05-14-2007, 07:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Anorexic....WOW!

Ok, here's my latest WOW moment. An associate at work called me "anorexic", please... amagine that.

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Old 05-14-2007, 09:48 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Ahhhh, just saw your pics, to me, you look just right, healthy and tight.
Interesting, though. I've noted that a number of people says of having been told as looking anorexic because of the weightloss, when looking at their pics, they look totally *normal* to me. I guess, any sort of weightloss in an acquaintance is kinda spooky and threatening for those who say so, because, medically speaking, anorexic is totally a different thing, and the funny thing is, people who actually suffer from anorexia often look like twins.
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Old 05-15-2007, 05:15 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Well i saw our other thread too !
I dont think u look anorexic!
YOUR look so awesome!
PEOPLE will say the oddest things
to us sometimes i think out of jealousy!
WHO knows!!!!!!
anyway glad it actually WOWed you
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Old 05-15-2007, 07:39 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Anorexic?! (slaps forehead) LOL

Personally I think you look awesome!
What's funny is I got those comments too. Mostly from family members. Often people don't 'get it' that a lot of obese women have very small frames. Plus if you look healthy then you are!

When I used to get these comments and I'd complain to the professional female body builders at the gym they'd laugh and say you look great! which to ME was the best compliment ever. Yes I was tiny then, teeny, with little body fat, but I was healthy looking. Men actually told me I had great legs..wow, do what?!

With this gain my family seems to think I look more like 'me' and etc other comments which really disturbs me!
I felt more like the strong woman I was when I was small and tight, warrior like
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Hmmm. Just as a lot of you do for a long time, I guess a lot of others who've known y'all for a long time, have a hard time getting that "fat girl image" out of their heads and recognizing how a healthy you actually looks like, or should look like.
Well, I think y'all are looing healthy and great now, and ya know, I have the eye for it, I'm a pro, after all.
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Old 05-15-2007, 09:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I will admit I have seen people lose weight and think OMG there going to far with it. Then they plateu and they just start fitting with themselfs then loose some more. That is a WOW moment for you for sure. LOL. You look great. I went back to view your pictures and you look wondeful.
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Old 05-15-2007, 04:41 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Thanks guys for your words of encouragement.
I agree with everyone but I think what Doc says sums it up about people seeing us as the "fat person", and anything else is adnormal, we just can't win.

anyway....Happy Losing,

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we just can't win.

anyway....Happy Losing,

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Of course you can win!!
Just keep at it, show 'em how healthy and happy you are, and you'll win everyone over to your side...except, um, those with vision in their hearts.

Besides, it's their problem, not yours.
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Old 05-16-2007, 07:52 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Thanks Doc, your words are uplifting. I do feel and look better after losing most of the weight. Some people just want to keep you down.

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Exclamation Ooooh, I just have to....

....get my 2 cents in!

Although I think there is some truth to what everyone said - I think some find it difficult to accept up as THIN PEOPLE because few of us do the tough work on the "INSIDE"...and "healing within" as we are dealing with our PostOp condition....and it's easier to see us as "FAT."

I also agree that some are like what Lisa/Fr1endly2 said & think there are 'some' that ARE jealous....They don't want to see us change - for 'whatever' reasons.
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This is the same enemy that doesn't want me to succeed even with the WLS. So....I'm set up to
  • not want to 'deal with my food issues'
  • to not deal with my 'obesity issues'.....or
  • truly do the HARDEST WORK which is dealing with why I gained the weight in the first place....
Amazing enough....the weight loss and outside body changes WILL HAPPEN....it just needs to be accompanied by the inside changes to truly & successfully Keep the weight off successfully!
LET'S DO THE INTERNAL HARD WORK....dealing with the the head stuff...so these feelings will not be a yoke around my neck!

JUST Do the work!!
LOOK for the hard spots - and jump right in!!~
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