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Walkin' the Dog - A Trick for Yo-Yo's
(like you & me)
February 17, 2005
 

Craig B. Thompson
Open RNY 1997
-200lbs

In this Issue:
1. Article
2. 40 Days of Purpose
3. Reaching Out
4. Book Progress
5. How YOU Can Help
6. Thank You

 

RenewedReflections.com is primarily for those who have had weight loss surgery (WLS), whether Roux en-Y, Gastric Banding, Distal Gastric Bypass, or even if you had your lips stapled shut for a year. After eight years post-op and talking with thousands of WLS patients around the world, I have found a common thread most of us share:
The weight wasn't the problem... I WAS!!

WLS often taps into a host of other mental, emotional, and spiritual issues that are not resolved with surgery alone. If you are ready to listen to the experience, strength, and hope of some of us who have “been there, done that,” then welcome home.

 

A couple of months after my big mental and emotional crash in the summer of 1999, I decided I needed to get a new Best Friend. I had just seen a movie in which Gene Hackman had a Jack Russell Terrier on board his submarine, and he claimed that the Jack was the smartest dog on the planet. Since I didn’t want to play second fiddle to anyone, the Jack Russell was the best friend for me. (I also knew that if I found one smart enough and cute enough, I might get some of the credit for the smart and cute part.)

I found the perfect pup and bestowed the coolest possible name I could come up with for the Jack Russell purebred registry. Francis Albert Sinatra was the king of cool and exemplified my love of classic music and swank retro style. Frankie had a new home.

I had done quite a bit of reading on Jacks and knew I was in for a handful. However, as was the story behind most of my bumps and bruises, I thought my special gift of uniqueness would ensure that I didn’t have the same level of challenge and aggravation every other JRT owner experienced. I was sadly mistaken. As they say here in Texas, I was in for a good old fashioned butt whuppin’.

When I first brought my new puppy home, I was sitting on the exact opposite side of reality. I thought I needed to teach this dog how things were done, the whole time unaware of the fact that God had put Frankie in my life to teach me some of the most important lessons I would ever learn.

A Walk on the Wild Side
After only a few days of having Frankie home I was ready to take him out for his first walk with his new collar and leash. I felt like the awkward high school boy who somehow was taking the best looking girl to the prom. I had visions of walking down the street with Frank’s head held high and chest puffed out as he pranced by my side. People would have no choice but to marvel at the sight of us. Frank was going to ride in the front seat with me as we cruised around town, pretending that he was ignoring all the turning heads and the sound of children’s voices shouting, “Hey mommy, look!” Frankie and I were going to be a team that would someday be compared to the greats, like The Lone Ranger and Tonto, or even Batman and Robin. This was going to be so cool. Click here to continue...

Read the entire article at:
http://www.renewedreflections.com/Walkin_the_Dog.25.0.html

Forty Days of Purpose
Starting March 1st, I will be hosting an online group through a journey of Rick Warren’s book The Purpose Driven Life. I would like to invite you to go though it with us. Please email me at Craig@RenewedReflections.com if you would like to join in. There is no fee for the course other than obtaining the book. You can order it for $9.99 through Amazon by clicking on the image of the book shown here. I can honestly say this book provides amazing insight into the eternal question of “Who Am I”.

Reaching Out
Many of us out of either habit, instinct, or fear tend to isolate when things seem to be going a little rough. Reaching out for help or offering help does not feel natural or comfortable when we are not at our best. For this reason, I encourage you to practice daily the art of reaching out to someone who is dealing with WLS issues. If you practice this on your sunny days, it will not feel as foreign on the cloudy days. If you are not sure who to reach out to, stop by Obesityhelp.com

Book Progress - Physical Bankruptcy™
With your continued encouragement and support, I am attempting to have the book manuscript ready for publishing by April. Thank you for your many notes of encouragement.

Physical Bankruptcy will be a guide for those who have undergone weight loss surgery and are now searching for answers to the mental, emotional and spiritual questions not addressed by the physical nature of the surgery alone.

How YOU Can Help
I have found a common trait among most of us PostOps is that we are great at giving, but have a very difficult time asking for help. I am by no means an exception. However, to lead by example I am listing some things that I could really use your help on. My goal is to give back to the weight loss community. You can play an important part by helping with these three humble requests:

1. Share the good news. Please forward this newsletter on to anyone you feel might find it motivating or enlightening. Encourage them to sign up on the newsletter list themselves at RenewedReflections.com.
2. Tell others about this resource. Direct friends and loved ones to read some of the articles on the site.
3. Provide prayer and encouragement. I find that the more I write this book and share the good news of the hope I have found, I come under what I can only describe as an attack. Please keep my lovely bride Leslie and me in your thoughts and prayers as we navigate this path to completion.

Thank You
You will hear me talk about the importance of experiencing gratitude the more you get to know me and my work. I recognize every day the many people near and far who have had a direct hand in my progress on this journey. Here are a few that have truly blessed me over the past month.

1. Leslie Thompson - The most beautiful woman in the world
2. Dr. Lawrence and Coral Kennedy
3. Dr. Neecie Moore
4. Dr. Jay and Regina Rosenberg
5. Dr. Sanae Tanaka (Tokyo)
6. Dixie Feldman - Author of Dixieland at RetroRadar.com
7. All of the awesome folks in the Obesityhelp chatroom

 
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